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Thug Game


Don Juan
Jan 30, 2005
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1 Introduction

Okay, so you wanna get laid more right? DUH else you wouldn't be here, maybe you are here because you like to study different seduction materals , or maybe this is you first seduction site(witch I hope it is). Well anyway, you've now found my methods.

I’ll tell you a little about myself, my name is Thug Poet a five year practitioner and student of seduction, I practice the marshal arts, as well as play basketball on the regular, in fact I am trying to get to the NBA. I started out(like most of you) using SS, now unlike some I had great success with it, I credit my knowledge and my start to it, however over time I developed a much simpler understanding of women and methods of dealing with them.

I was alright with women back then but I had trouble displaying my wants to them like I want to **** or like I want you to be my GF, hence my study of seduction. I didn’t get good over night however it took a lot of work, but eventually I got it, you see I had always been taught, that "women think differently from men", "women don't really like sex so it doesn't matter what you look like.”

Perhaps you’re saying "but then what am I gonna do??? I'm an ugly, short bald SOB.” Well the same understandings of that women LOVE sex, just as much as men do and the knowledge and ability to manipulate the submission factor will skyrocket your success with the ladies and all you have to do is try.

Now before we begin we must go over the requirements of the method:
1:come with the mind of a child, witch means come with the mindset of will to learn something new.
2: go try it, after to finish reading go try it out nothing will come of reading you must try. Ok make a promise to me and to yourself that you will try this out at less five times.
3:Don’t become an method hound, don’t just read method after method trying to “absorb all you can”, believe it or not you can gain 5 times as much knowledge by actually trying then by sitting on your computer reading.

Are you ready? Lets dive right in!!

2 Know your role

Ever since the beginning of time we as men have been in charge, we have been the kings and conquers , but some were along the way (praboly around the hippy 60’s ) we lost our masculinity and started … dare I say it feminine. We started being over analytical, and supplacating to woman as if they were the providers, the care- takers or even the leaders.
We as a society has become so feminized that we can’t even approach other human beings. Don’t believe me? Watch that move Hitch, see how he started out as a typical “player” but later on he started suplapcating lost the girl ran back to her begging and pleing to give him another chance and since it is a movie they got back together. Now imagine a caveman movie:

Caveman: arggghhh woman smell nice
Cavewoman: arggggghhh thanks
Caveman pulls cavewoman by hair into the cave for some hot cave action the end. See the difference?

Now odviously we can’t not do this for if we did then we would wide up in jail fighting off big fat white guys named big bubba and sally… we don’t that. But what we do want is alphaness bleeding through our pores. We do this by leading as men.

Many men first and foremost do not understand their role in the mating game. Woman rarely approach men and they in fact end up meeting their mates at work or school or parties through mutual acquaintances. The INITIAL selection process is up to the man. YOU must make the first move and initiate the meeting with her. This is basic If you don’t try you will fail.

Understand that masculine is attracted to feminine and feminine is attracted to masculine. Of course there are exceptions, but we’ll limit this to PU purposes.

Let me ask you all question, what is a man? Is a man someone who is sensitive? Someone who can cook? What about someone who will go shopping for a dress with his best gal? No a man is a human with a ****, its just that simple.

The Nice Guy, being so nice and sweet, listens to the woman vomit her feelings about men and bleed her problems of her boyfriend on him. He listens with baited hope when he hears, "Oh, why can't guys be like you! You listen and understand." Then she turns around and gets abused by another jerk!

Now let me ask you another question, why do woman act like this? Are they simply on the rag, and you cought them at the wrong time of the month? Not likely, what about her just being a super ***** who likes to ****s around with peoples emotions? Maybe, but not the answer I am looking for. They, are simply acting as women do, as in their nature. The problem is not with them, but it is with the guys. We are afraid to embrace OUR nature, that of being a Man.

Skills it’s all about skills

Having a problem? You need a new skill. If you have some area of your life that isn't working for you, you probably need a new SKILL. Can’t shoot a basketball, you need a new skill, and picking up woman is no different. Can’t get pass the opening you need a new skill, but if you don’t know what you want then you are working towards nothing…

What do you want?

Most brothers that I talk to about this topic really can't explain the exact out come they are looking for. They don’t know what they want, all they know is that they want *****.

So let me ask you...
Are you looking for a one night stands?
Are you looking for multiple girlfriends
Are you looking for a wife?
Are you looking to get this part of your life called 'confidence with
women' handled? What is it that you'd like to do? Once you choose an outcome for
yourself, you can apply what you're learning to that outcome. If you have no outcome, then you're going to be like a ship in the ocean with no particular port as your
destination. With no target, there is a very small chance that you'll ever be successful.
Take a moment and write down your goal as it relates to women.
Me some times I want nothing but FBS no GF no nothing, then other times I want MLTRS. Its alright to want more then one thing. Work towards them both but remember that working towards one may hinder the other .


Don Juan
Jan 30, 2005
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A man is…

Exercise time I want you to write what is a man to you. Here is mine:
-Focuses on his dreams.
-Does not apologize for his testosterone, for his desires.
-Never feels he has to prove himself to anyone.
-He feels his sexuality and is not afraid to show it

Flowers, candy, poetry all can be good additions to a relationship, but so many nice guys use them to BUY the relationship as if they must prove themselves. They flood with the poor woman with gifts to show they mean it.

So away with the flowers, those dead plants as tokens of affection.
Away with the candy, the fatting sweats of your love. Away with the quest to prove yourself to them!

3 Sexuality

Sexual desire is our most base emotion, its not a state of mind, it’s a part of us. Its been with us since we were born. All of us including woman no, especially woman…

The myth: woman don’t like sex

Newsflash: Women love to ****. LOVE ... IT! Probably more than you! Think about it.
Can you have wave after wave of multiple orgasms for hours? Are you capable of having not one but several distinct types of orgasms? Do you have an organ designed solely for sexual pleasure that is ten times more sensitive than a penis? Do you scream and convulse in ecstacy when you climax, begging for more? Yeah, didn't think so!

So why do women fight and resist, when oddviously they are just as if not more horny
Then we are? Why does it feel like trying to break in to the Pentagon, just to get into them panties?

Because it’s “bad” for a girl to feel those feelings of ecstacy, of lust it’s a social stigma for a woman to want to be penetrated, to want to feel a long hard **** inside her, so we as men have to work around this program.

Forgotten instinct

The dynamics of sexual tension can’t be denied, no matter how PC no matter how formal your desire, your sexual desire will shine through. Sex isn’t bad, our feeling, our passions are not bad, we must awaken our forgotten instinct.

Of all the inventions, of all the ideas, there has been one thing that we have excelled at, one that that needs no work…. SEX! Ever since the dawn of man we have rocked each others worlds with almost no stop sex. Our jeans are encoded with sex, with desire. We long for a touch, a slight smell of female natural juices. Forget you’re a man with a nine to five, forget you have to go to work in the morning, tap into your primal essence. This is the forgotten instinct.

Extreme closeness

Get up close and personal, slowly draw yourself up to her relax nothing gonna happen
Imagine you’re in a time bubble, were time itself slows down, just you and her. Nothing can penetrate that bubble, let your bodies touch, she is just as excited as you are. Get lost in your senses just loose yourself in the moment. Move in, smell her neck tell her she smells nice tell her you can feel the sexual heat between you. Caress her body be a gentile lover.

Time again

Time for another exercise this time I want you to go out yes really go out. And approach two girls yep two girls and as you approach imagine all the lustful things you want to do with them and try to project that to them while your talking to them. Have fun!

4 Body language

We all know, that people communicate with each other on multiple levels. Words (what we say), is just 7% of the whole conversation, rest is body language. And when I say body language I mean everything voice tone, how you walk, everything. You may ask why body language is so important. First, because its the way you communicate with other people, including women. Sub-communication my friend that’s what its all about.
For example when you are in room, and you feel really nervous, everyone in the room will pick up that you are nervous, by your actions, tonality, speed of your movements... Such things are really obvious, even for children... you can see when somebody is sad, happy, excited, honest, angry. That’s why its sooo important to have the correct BL.

The truth

I realized long ago that I can’t keep track of my body language, how far apart my feet are, whether I’m leaning in or not, if I’m in the attraction phase, rapport phase, etc. I realized however that I do know how I feel about myself, who I am, what I want etc and created a method that would utilize those qualities.
I believe that weak body language, unattractive behavior, social incompetence, etc are really just symptoms of low self-esteem, lack of confidence, and fear. In my opinion, some methods alleviate the symptoms rather than cure the disease.
You see its all good to know that jazz, but useless unless on autopilot. If you have to focus on this in field to make it happen, you can’t PU properly! (self conscious)
I will go over some basic BL tips


1: take up space

2: move extra slowly

3: lean back

I know this is a short section but like I said Alpha BL is something that flows from the correct beliefs and mindsets now I am not saying that one can not learn the correct BL and FAKE being an alpha , but what I am saying is why learn something that will naturally flow from you once you learn the correct mindsets and beliefs.

Exercise time

To internalize the correct BL you must use it all the time you must walk like 50 cent in the bathroom, turn slowly when addressed arrest yourself when you have anything but alpha BL. Watch and analize high status males BL and see the differences between them and you


Don Juan
Jan 30, 2005
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5 Technique

Now it’s time to go in more conscious side of things, so far we have been working on the beliefs and mindsets of a true man, now we are get into the techniques. Now I won’t go over all those over the top techs like peacocking or the infamous CF for they are not required to get laid. What I am about to give you are the two most powerful tools of the trade that I know Qualifying and Role Playing.


Qualifying/screening what ever you what to call it is finding out if she has the qualities you are looking for. In order to do this you have to first know what qualities you are looking for in a woman. For example some of mine are:

Knows how to have fun
Knows her sexuality
Has a strong will

These are my standards and expectations. You are free to use mine, but l suggest that you get a piece of paper and a pencil and come up with a list of your own standards and expectations.

The actual screening

What l am going to suggest is going to sound a bit odd to you but it absolutely works. And what l am going to suggest has worked wonders with girls ranging from hot club girls to conservative professionals. This is probably one of the most powerful techniques l have ever discovered.

First you walk up to her and say your opening slip your hand around her waist and as soon as you’re finished your opening you start qualifying. One of the biggest mistake I see most guys do is asking women straight out without getting specific.

For example:

Him: are you spontaneous?
Her: I don’t know maybe
Him: cool, do you like woman
Her: what?!

Now in this instance the guy came at her ALL wrong. What you want to do is describe the quality your looking for like:

Me: man I like having fun, sometimes me and my friends will go out and party and party all night long just hanging out and dancing with a lot of honeys.
Her: oh yeah me to I like to go out and have fun hanging with the girls chillin and making the fellas horny J/K

Another example:

Me: I hate it when a woman is so up tight that they can’t realize that sex is natural and that men and woman are not so different in that we both think about and like sex..
Her: I know what you mean sex is something God gave us and should be in-braced and enjoyed not feared

See the difference? When you qualify like this you really get to know her on a deeper level you know. Its all about trying to get to know her imtimently, to have a genuine connection with her.

Now when she understands that you are getting to know her for who she is, that you are trying to connect with her, she is able to trust you and feels comfortable around you, then she will feel a connection with you. And if you add her feeling attraction for you into the equation, then she will feel a sexual connection with you

Role Playing

Now it’s time to jump into role playing Role-playing is acting out make believe scenarios usually but not always as fictitious characters. It is something we have all done before--I think l started doing it as soon as far as I could remember.

Why role playing

Role playing gets rid of vulnerability:

Role-playing is powerful because it is not in reality. This means that because it is not "real" participators perceive there to be no consequences in making themselves vulnerable, and, thus, are willing to really open up.

It is as powerful as if it were real:

One thing to keep in mind is that the unconscious mind cannot distinguish
between what is real and what is make believe.


You’re my groupie

Me: you know I want to start a boy band, it will be tight and you can be our first groupie, every group needs a groupie.
Her: no I don’t think so
Me: oww come on it will be fun! All you have to do is fallow us around yelling how much you love us throwing your panties at us like that 213 song groupie lov
Her: ummm I think I will pass
Me: pleeeeeaaaaassse!!!!

See I am just having fun not being serious. By doing this it shows that I am not up tight and that I can have fun and play around.

The end

All this stuff does nothing without you going out and actuality doing it. Have fun its not the end of the world if you get rejected life goes on.

My game as soon will be yours has boiled down to the bare essentials... eliminate shame and doubt from your mind and learn to be truly happy with who you are, how you look and what you do. Then you will see for yourself that C&F, neghits, rapport and all that jazz will come to you of its own accord. No assembly or rocket science required!

Any questions hit me up at: notebookofatp.blogspot.com


Master Don Juan
May 31, 2005
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wow...If I was Gunwitch, I'd be PISSED :)

(cause you just ripped him off)


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