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They just think white guys are hot, is all. All white guys slay on tinder over there. No money changes hands lol
It’s not just money. Sometimes they set their sights higher, and sometimes they will actually spend money on you to lure you there. Green card, marriage...whatever. White guys are often seen as a ticket out.

I had a plate straight from Hong Kong who didnt need any of that sh*t. She preferred white guys, yes, but wanted the chad just as much as any western girl would. Many women she knew, including family, were desperately seeking a way out.

White incel = easy prey.
 

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It’s not just money. Sometimes they set their sights higher, and sometimes they will actually spend money on you to lure you there. Green card, marriage...whatever. White guys are often seen as a ticket out.

I had a plate straight from Hong Kong who didnt need any of that sh*t. She preferred white guys, yes, but wanted the chad just as much as any western girl would. Many women she knew, including family, were desperately seeking a way out.

White incel = easy prey.
Dude should know what genuine desire is and know how to screen. Fck em if they are that stupid then they deserve it.
 

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It’s not just money. Sometimes they set their sights higher, and sometimes they will actually spend money on you to lure you there. Green card, marriage...whatever. White guys are often seen as a ticket out.

I had a plate straight from Hong Kong who didnt need any of that sh*t. She preferred white guys, yes, but wanted the chad just as much as any western girl would. Many women she knew, including family, were desperately seeking a way out.

White incel = easy prey.
A buddy of mine could've been an easy double for the Marlboro Man, but when he was a young, dumb sailor, he got hooked by an Asian chick, who got herself knocked up by him, got him to marry her, and to bring her state-side. Almost as soon as she delivered his baby, she pulled a Houdini, ditching my buddy and the kid, both. If it could happen to him, it could happen to just about anyone.
 

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Guys automatically think asians are easy. They are not.
My wife is sexy in the bedroom but she also has game. Girls under 30 in asia are more westernized then we believe. You still want them to come from a good family if you are looking for LTR material.
@zinc4 has been saying this based off his postings in China/HK.
 
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This thread is something else. Men's view of attractiveness isn't as divergent as women's, but it can still vary significantly. Pursue who you think is attractive; hell, if consensus opinion varies less competition for you!
 

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It’s not just money. Sometimes they set their sights higher, and sometimes they will actually spend money on you to lure you there. Green card, marriage...whatever. White guys are often seen as a ticket out.

I had a plate straight from Hong Kong who didnt need any of that sh*t. She preferred white guys, yes, but wanted the chad just as much as any western girl would. Many women she knew, including family, were desperately seeking a way out.

White incel = easy prey.
You see those girls on OLD from time to time.
 

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Do not ever say a girl is a 10. Especially not a fat one.

try to be the prize yourself and don’t ever chase. Women find it repulsive.
 
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That girl in the green bikini @lgbs2004 posted is a little on the flat side, but striking nonetheless.

This thread is something else. Men's view of attractiveness isn't as divergent as women's, but it can still vary significantly. Pursue who you think is attractive; hell, if consensus opinion varies less competition for you!
I've always thought that if a girl was physically appealing to you in some special way, but wasn't seen like that by the majority, so much the better, more for me.
 

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Women have the most divergent taste, I've been saying that on this board for a long time. Men's idea of attractiveness is less divergent overall
 
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Do not ever say a girl is a 10. Especially not a fat one.

try to be the prize yourself and don’t ever chase. Women find it repulsive.
Yep, even the "hottest" ladies in these pics have one or two guys up on a pedastal somewhere. They stalk them, knowing everything about them.
 

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Yep, even the "hottest" ladies in these pics have one or two guys up on a pedastal somewhere. They stalk them, knowing everything about them.
So you pursuing them, acting like a female of their looks is "brand new" is acting like you have less worth than tthe guys they REALLY like. They always are going to like somebody.

They might admire your persistance, and think your even kinda good looking, but the way you ACT... But they might "use" you, and even give you some... But it won't be as much as the guys they desire....
 

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So you pursuing them, acting like a female of their looks is "brand new" is acting like you have less worth than tthe guys they REALLY like. They always are going to like somebody.

They might admire your persistance, and think your even kinda good looking, but the way you ACT... But they might "use" you, and even give you some... But it won't be as much as the guys they desire....
Back in cali, I always experienced this. I had women that liked me in social circles. And some of them were needy, although cute. We would go out to the clubs and guys more handsome than me would pursue them, not knowing these women were needy.

What this does is it creates cognitive dissonance. You value her more than she values herself. And thus, she has no choice but to see you as low value - and even lower valued than the guys she likes in her social circles, even if you were more handsome.

It's a psychological trick that has many high value guys in the clubs getting rejected by 6's and 7's. It doesn't add up.

It's like a Bermuda triangle of an anomaly that noone could explain.

How can a high value guy who gets 9's and 10's in his social circles go out and get rejected by 6's and 7's? Cognitive dissonance.

At least that's what I think the term is. I might be wrong. Cognitive dissonance might be her mind saying no but her body saying yes, like anti-slvt defense.

Alright, let's just call it image incongruency. There, I created a new term. She is an 8 who imagines herself to be a 6 because no guy in her social circles can tolerate her neediness and attention wh0ring behavior.

And she goes out to the smv market and every guy treats her like an 8. This creates a feeling of image incongruency and she has no choice but to see these guys as losers.

Hot women suffering from image incongruency are the most frustrating kind because you will see them leave the clubs with the ugliest guy that matches their inner congruency. And you will end up doubting yourself saying "What the hell just happened?"

Your best bet is to hit on an 8 who feels like an 8. These women often socialize in higher class venues in the VIP section with bottle service. They don't show up to sausage fests trying to soak up validation.
 
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Back in cali, I always experienced this. I had women that liked me in social circles. And some of them were needy, although cute. We would go out to the clubs and guys more handsome than me would pursue them, not knowing these women were needy.

What this does is it creates cognitive dissonance. You value her more than she values herself. And thus, she has no choice but to see you as low value - and even lower valued than the guys she likes in her social circles, even if you were more handsome.

It's a psychological trick that has many high value guys in the clubs getting rejected by 6's and 7's. It doesn't add up.

It's like a Bermuda triangle of an anomaly that noone could explain.

How can a high value guy who gets 9's and 10's in his social circles go out and get rejected by 6's and 7's? Cognitive dissonance.

At least that's what I think the term is. I might be wrong. Cognitive dissonance might be her mind saying no but her body saying yes, like anti-slvt defense.

Alright, let's just call it image incongruency. There, I created a new term. She is an 8 who imagines herself to be a 6 because no guy in her social circles can tolerate her neediness and attention wh0ring behavior.

And she goes out to the smv market and every guy treats her like an 8. This creates a feeling of image incongruency and she has no choice but to see these guys as losers.

Hot women suffering from image incongruency are the most frustrating kind because you will see them leave the clubs with the ugliest guy that matches their inner congruency. And you will end up doubting yourself saying "What the hell just happened?"

Your best bet is to hit on an 8 who feels like an 8. These women often socialize in higher class venues in the VIP section with bottle service. They don't show up to sausage fests trying to soak up validation.
I mean honestly if you just have a back bone and some self-respect, doesn’t really matter whether she’s needy or not because you’ll walk away before she starts to look down on you and this she’ll assume you’re higher value than all of these other chumps. Those 8s who feel like 8s will be attracted to you for the same reason but in conjunction with your social acuity, tho that’s more for 9s and 10s from what I’ve seen.
 

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I mean honestly if you just have a back bone and some self-respect, doesn’t really matter whether she’s needy or not because you’ll walk away before she starts to look down on you and this she’ll assume you’re higher value than all of these other chumps. Those 8s who feel like 8s will be attracted to you for the same reason but in conjunction with your social acuity, tho that’s more for 9s and 10s from what I’ve seen.
Imho if she's needy and goofy behind YOU thats great. It means she's into you and can't control herself.
 
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