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This thread is something else. Men's view of attractiveness isn't as divergent as women's, but it can still vary significantly. Pursue who you think is attractive; hell, if consensus opinion varies less competition for you!
 

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It’s not just money. Sometimes they set their sights higher, and sometimes they will actually spend money on you to lure you there. Green card, marriage...whatever. White guys are often seen as a ticket out.

I had a plate straight from Hong Kong who didnt need any of that sh*t. She preferred white guys, yes, but wanted the chad just as much as any western girl would. Many women she knew, including family, were desperately seeking a way out.

White incel = easy prey.
You see those girls on OLD from time to time.
 

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Do not ever say a girl is a 10. Especially not a fat one.

try to be the prize yourself and don’t ever chase. Women find it repulsive.
 

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That girl in the green bikini @lgbs2004 posted is a little on the flat side, but striking nonetheless.

This thread is something else. Men's view of attractiveness isn't as divergent as women's, but it can still vary significantly. Pursue who you think is attractive; hell, if consensus opinion varies less competition for you!
I've always thought that if a girl was physically appealing to you in some special way, but wasn't seen like that by the majority, so much the better, more for me.
 

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Women have the most divergent taste, I've been saying that on this board for a long time. Men's idea of attractiveness is less divergent overall
 

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Do not ever say a girl is a 10. Especially not a fat one.

try to be the prize yourself and don’t ever chase. Women find it repulsive.
Yep, even the "hottest" ladies in these pics have one or two guys up on a pedastal somewhere. They stalk them, knowing everything about them.
 

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Yep, even the "hottest" ladies in these pics have one or two guys up on a pedastal somewhere. They stalk them, knowing everything about them.
So you pursuing them, acting like a female of their looks is "brand new" is acting like you have less worth than tthe guys they REALLY like. They always are going to like somebody.

They might admire your persistance, and think your even kinda good looking, but the way you ACT... But they might "use" you, and even give you some... But it won't be as much as the guys they desire....
 

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So you pursuing them, acting like a female of their looks is "brand new" is acting like you have less worth than tthe guys they REALLY like. They always are going to like somebody.

They might admire your persistance, and think your even kinda good looking, but the way you ACT... But they might "use" you, and even give you some... But it won't be as much as the guys they desire....
Back in cali, I always experienced this. I had women that liked me in social circles. And some of them were needy, although cute. We would go out to the clubs and guys more handsome than me would pursue them, not knowing these women were needy.

What this does is it creates cognitive dissonance. You value her more than she values herself. And thus, she has no choice but to see you as low value - and even lower valued than the guys she likes in her social circles, even if you were more handsome.

It's a psychological trick that has many high value guys in the clubs getting rejected by 6's and 7's. It doesn't add up.

It's like a Bermuda triangle of an anomaly that noone could explain.

How can a high value guy who gets 9's and 10's in his social circles go out and get rejected by 6's and 7's? Cognitive dissonance.

At least that's what I think the term is. I might be wrong. Cognitive dissonance might be her mind saying no but her body saying yes, like anti-slvt defense.

Alright, let's just call it image incongruency. There, I created a new term. She is an 8 who imagines herself to be a 6 because no guy in her social circles can tolerate her neediness and attention wh0ring behavior.

And she goes out to the smv market and every guy treats her like an 8. This creates a feeling of image incongruency and she has no choice but to see these guys as losers.

Hot women suffering from image incongruency are the most frustrating kind because you will see them leave the clubs with the ugliest guy that matches their inner congruency. And you will end up doubting yourself saying "What the hell just happened?"

Your best bet is to hit on an 8 who feels like an 8. These women often socialize in higher class venues in the VIP section with bottle service. They don't show up to sausage fests trying to soak up validation.
 
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Back in cali, I always experienced this. I had women that liked me in social circles. And some of them were needy, although cute. We would go out to the clubs and guys more handsome than me would pursue them, not knowing these women were needy.

What this does is it creates cognitive dissonance. You value her more than she values herself. And thus, she has no choice but to see you as low value - and even lower valued than the guys she likes in her social circles, even if you were more handsome.

It's a psychological trick that has many high value guys in the clubs getting rejected by 6's and 7's. It doesn't add up.

It's like a Bermuda triangle of an anomaly that noone could explain.

How can a high value guy who gets 9's and 10's in his social circles go out and get rejected by 6's and 7's? Cognitive dissonance.

At least that's what I think the term is. I might be wrong. Cognitive dissonance might be her mind saying no but her body saying yes, like anti-slvt defense.

Alright, let's just call it image incongruency. There, I created a new term. She is an 8 who imagines herself to be a 6 because no guy in her social circles can tolerate her neediness and attention wh0ring behavior.

And she goes out to the smv market and every guy treats her like an 8. This creates a feeling of image incongruency and she has no choice but to see these guys as losers.

Hot women suffering from image incongruency are the most frustrating kind because you will see them leave the clubs with the ugliest guy that matches their inner congruency. And you will end up doubting yourself saying "What the hell just happened?"

Your best bet is to hit on an 8 who feels like an 8. These women often socialize in higher class venues in the VIP section with bottle service. They don't show up to sausage fests trying to soak up validation.
I mean honestly if you just have a back bone and some self-respect, doesn’t really matter whether she’s needy or not because you’ll walk away before she starts to look down on you and this she’ll assume you’re higher value than all of these other chumps. Those 8s who feel like 8s will be attracted to you for the same reason but in conjunction with your social acuity, tho that’s more for 9s and 10s from what I’ve seen.
 

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I mean honestly if you just have a back bone and some self-respect, doesn’t really matter whether she’s needy or not because you’ll walk away before she starts to look down on you and this she’ll assume you’re higher value than all of these other chumps. Those 8s who feel like 8s will be attracted to you for the same reason but in conjunction with your social acuity, tho that’s more for 9s and 10s from what I’ve seen.
Imho if she's needy and goofy behind YOU thats great. It means she's into you and can't control herself.
 

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Yep, even the "hottest" ladies in these pics have one or two guys up on a pedastal somewhere. They stalk them, knowing everything about them.
Yeah, I've been stalked by multiple women IRL and online. I try to leave as little traceable info as possible.
 

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It’s not just money. Sometimes they set their sights higher, and sometimes they will actually spend money on you to lure you there. Green card, marriage...whatever. White guys are often seen as a ticket out.

I had a plate straight from Hong Kong who didnt need any of that sh*t. She preferred white guys, yes, but wanted the chad just as much as any western girl would. Many women she knew, including family, were desperately seeking a way out.

White incel = easy prey.

This is true. I know a guy who went from white girls to exclusively Asians because he thinks he discovered some holy grail. And now he’s giving away green cards for free. They don’t even pay him. He goes to Asia in hopes of a relationship, the honeymoon period is fantastic, and as soon as he marries them, they divorce. It’s been this way for almost 10 years.

And he has another trip this September in desperate need for a relationship.


In a lot of ways it seems like women are smarter than a lot of men. They will prey on your desperate need to be loved like how your mother loved you.

Just look at all the rags to riches divorces and free green cards, lol. Seems like women are the actual logical businessmen.

And men are stuck in their fantasies and one-itis

People want to convince me that women are dumb reactive machines but then I see random insta h0es becoming millionaires piggy backing off of great men.
 
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I mean honestly if you just have a back bone and some self-respect, doesn’t really matter whether she’s needy or not because you’ll walk away before she starts to look down on you and this she’ll assume you’re higher value than all of these other chumps. Those 8s who feel like 8s will be attracted to you for the same reason but in conjunction with your social acuity, tho that’s more for 9s and 10s from what I’ve seen.
A good post. And true
 

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Guys attitude in this forum is starting to go in the toilet.
"Every girl is not evil lol. Newsflash
Every girl is not out to get you or your green card fellas. Or your money and stuff.
Start livin life guys. Just go for it
 
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