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Story short:
- I'm in finances/studying/intellectual upgrade mode until 31st of March 2019
- I'm in appearance/physical upgrade mode since 1st of April 2019

Target:
-dating women 10 years younger or more

I'm thinking about getting tattoo to get a bit more edgy look and be more attractive to tatoo generation of 20-somethings. I'm interested in opinions of guys that have tattoo. What's the social effect? Was it worth it?
 

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Sad that you even consider doing something like that to attract p*ssy.
 

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Well I'm thinking about getting one for myself as well, but I hesitate. Effect on females might be decisive factor.

If there's no significant change in pulling women with this kind of upgrade then I might abstain but otherwise => might be decisive factor.

Besides, I was pretty specific - I'm asking guys that have tattoo. I'm not about "Getting tattoo vs not getting tattoo" discussion here.
 

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Like attracts like. Do you like women with tattoos? Because that's who you'll attract. And you'll repel others, both personally and professionally. Yes lots of people have them, so what? I don't, never will, and I do just fine. If you're going to get a tattoo do it for yourself and for a good reason - it's basically for the rest of your life. I think you'll do better to attract "20-somethings" by getting your $ game right.
 

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Frivelous idea. I know many men who did the same thing just to go through painful laser surgery to have them removed due to corporate life and other things. Ask yourself this. How does a tattoo benefit your life? Do the people you look up to have tats?If they are successful, doubtful, unless young. Even they regret them. Mark Wahlberg and Dr. Dre had them removed.
 

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Don't get a tattoo. AS my Dad used to say only convicts, Military men and prostitutes have tattoos.
 

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Get it, it's just a tattoo

Got my first at 15 maybe 16, I have them everywhere except my face.
 

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Laser surgery doesn't always remove the tattoo completely. Usually, you see a "ghost" image of the original tattoo. I was seeing a girl who had been living "la vida loca." She wouldn't get into specifics but she had several tattoos removed and the after-effects (ghosting) were clearly visible. Typically you will need 3-4 laser procedures for every tattoo. That could easily run several thousand dollars. Then there is the risk of complications.

Even getting the tattoo itself is dangerous. This is just an idiotic move all around.
 
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anything you do in life should have a reason, better yet a valid reason, want to go back to college to study? valid reason you want to learn to be paid more, not a valid one, to get to know woman, same on this case, waht reason you do have? for woman? not a valid one, try better.

in a personal level I really hate tatoos, I don't see the point, more then likely you will and can get some complication on something you never needed, even more a lot of girl who have tatoo are also a turn off for me, its like they are dirt and are never getting clean, plus is always good to evade decisions who can scar you for life without a valid reason
 

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Like attracts like. Do you like women with tattoos? Because that's who you'll attract. And you'll repel others, both personally and professionally. Yes lots of people have them, so what? I don't, never will, and I do just fine. If you're going to get a tattoo do it for yourself and for a good reason - it's basically for the rest of your life. I think you'll do better to attract "20-somethings" by getting your $ game right.
That’s not true . I have no tattoos on my body ( esthetic af though) and i have no trouble attracting women with tattoos. Actually most of them have lots of tattoos. But still I believe a tattoo is looking good only temporary.
After many years it fades and it’s not so nice to look at .
 

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Well, the idea of correcting tattoos is what actually makes think think it over.

Social stigma comes mostly from:
- making foolish tattoos
- making mindless tattoos
- making poor tattoos
- making too many tattoos
- making tattoos in the places that are visible to other ppl

I'm largely against 'showing them off' yet they might be interesting for person that have them and show some edge in your personality that can be attractive to people that are important to you, something like sharing part of your soul with them.

Some of them are aesthetically awesome as well and I like to look at them - I slept with women that had tattoos and didn't mind them/found them attractive so I understand why women find them pleasing as well.

It's just that 'correct the old tattoo' thing that is meh however I see that even women of value find it intriguing when guys say that he has a tattoo. Especially if it's not to be spotted easily/he doesn't 'brag around' with it.
 

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The fact that you are not even sure should be a good reason to take more time to decide.

Personally I dont find tatoos to be a great enhancement for men, let alone for women...you dont put stickers on a ferrari after all.

If your work has nothing to do with military, drugs or fighting then your tattoos may scream "look at me I'm a badass".
 
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I have big tattoos that aren't visible when I'm wearing normal clothing. One time a woman told me that it's like cheating because the tattoos convert the parts of my body that I don't like into a sexy, sorta badass work of art. Get them, but be very careful about the images you choose... very careful. Don't worry about meaning - go for aesthetic and fit. Take your sweet time with them too. Get one small one first.
 

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A tattoo that is obtained solely for the approval of others is one of the most douchebaggy things you can do.
 
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