Master Don Juan
- Mar 9, 2012
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Best way to maintain frame in an LTR: less is more, and keep it fun.That's true. There was a time when I got out of the military and was on adderall because I was told I was A.D.D in bootcamp lol. It killed my sex drive. And I swear I felt like I was free. No longer did I wanted to go out to the bars on weekends. Saved a lot of money. But then something weird happened. I started getting negged 20+ times a day by random women, every woman in my social environment tried to seduce me, and I made a lot of women needy. They wouldn't let me leave the game. My lack of paying attention to them irked them somehow. That's when I discovered the secret to attraction. When I lost my intent, my attractiveness increased by like 200%. I could have a convo with a 9 with zero fvcks about to create anything and in turned, she would wonder why I am so free from the matrix of impressing women.
But the most important revelation of all was when I realized 90% of females were annoying and nothing to offer. They wanted value from ME, and not the other way around. They were either too entitled or needy to be around. I never realized this when I had raging hormones. But when I became non-needy myself, everone just started to repel me.
I am not on adderall anymore and I have my sex drive back but the veil has been lifted. I discovered what it felt like to have a sex drive of a 75 year old man, lol. I just wanted to watch the ball game and have a cold beer in peace, go fishing, and read zen books, lol. And I was perfectly content. And whenever a woman would observe me, I would leave the room.
With zero intent and zero effort, and even borderline contempt for annoying women, I still managed to have like 10+ women try to seduce me on a daily basis. They would take it as an insult if I didn't accept their dinner offers. This is also why I no longer believe in game. Having good game is nothing to brag about. It just means you have to do the heavy lifting instead of the woman. And as a seducer, you have to deal with so many weird women with sexual hangups. At least when they seduce you, you know they are feminine and normal.
What's fvcking every guy up is anti-game really. That and having no social life where they have access to women.
If you had a social life it is as simple is showing up and not giving a fvck about women. And genuinely enjoying what it is that you do. Contentment = abundance with women.
Trying to get better with women is like walking on quick sand. The harder you try the faster you sink.
As for the topic, the best women for LTR's are already in LTR's. The eternally single ones will annoy you eventually. The high quality ones are social so have no chance not to be scooped up already.
A woman operating on her optimum wavelength WILL find a guy operating on his wavelength. They will find each other. It's the law of attraction. It's how the universe creates life.
HOWEVER, the universe does not care about human social constructs. The relationship will elevate her point of attraction even more. And she will continually run into high frequency guys on her wavelength. As soon as her BF slips up on his frame, she's already got backup. And that's when I would usually show up.
For some odd reason, the universe would always put me in situations where a beautiful woman's relationship is on the rocks. I guess even the universe has no pity for cucks.
Forget being a romantic hero. I'd rather be the effortless rebound guy, lol. You get the best of everything and have no obligation to commit to the woman.
Hell my girlfriend tries to get serious with me, and I just fvck around and deflect all that crap into something stupid, because that is what women are, emotional, little girls that want to have fun and get their sh1t wet.
Deal breakers for me:
2) drug abuse
4) no job or aspirations