Master Don Juan
- Jan 18, 2021
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How do you proceed with her when you feel there's another guy in the picture?
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I ask, because her last few texts to me have been very 'friend-ish'. It feels like she's lost the spark she used to have for me.Do: nothing different with her.
Do: keep having sex with her
Do: keep talking to other women.
Men, don’t develop feelings for women until they press you for exclusivity.
Respond by asking her out for the next date. No need to read into anything. Your intent is to dvck her down.I ask, because her last few texts to me have been very 'friend-ish'. It feels like she's lost the spark she used to have for me.
How should I respond to her friendly message?
Don't worry, I'm not letting her pull me into HER frame. I'm not one of those 'I'd rather have you in my life as a friend than not at all' guys.
fvck.. honestly?Was a plate, but started to develop feelings for her. What should I say - or do?
Just a few months. The thought of her w/ another guy is a total mindfvck. I have the oneitis.fvck.. honestly?
you should see her less , and let the feelings go down a little.
at this point you have developed feelings , so its not practical to keep seeing her as often as you are now, play it cool, eat your heart out and slowly back up , you can keep her as a plate but if you want something serious , its gonna have to be on her time wait for her to press the relationship. how long have you developed feelings and how strong have they gotten?
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The rare post from @spikeanut. Ppreciate it brotha.OP, if this is the same girl from your other post then there is nothing you can do. If you have moved and can no longer meet her on a regular basis, then there is no point in continuing to txt her. Pull your time and attention away from her. You will never be able to increase her interest higher than a guy she can go out and see, date, fvck any time she wants. You cannot change the way a person feels or make them do something they don't already want to do. All you can do as a man is change yourself. So do that. Change your mindset, start getting over her. It's not going to be easy, but you have to cut her off. Only time and absence will help you get over her. No other easy way to say it; this plate is done. All you have left with this one is when you're back in town, a random what's up text here and there. You may get lucky and things may have spiraled out of control with her new man, or men. Or she may be in an LTR. At this point, it is out of your hands. You can only do what a man would do...move on and focus on yourself.