Wai
Don Juan
Have you ever told a girl in your AFC-days that you had feelings for her and got shot down? If yes, does it still hurt? If it does, how much compared to the exact moment when you were rejected? Right then you were crushed, but you knew that life would go on. DJ-ing is not just about girls, it's also about self-respect. You know that you're a great guy, and telling that girl what you felt about her was a wrong move. Congrats; experience worth gold. Now you know what not to do. But you still need more experience.
If you never told a girl your feelings for her; How do you know that rejections hurts? Really, it doesn't hurt as much as you imagine it.
You don't approach, not because of the fear of rejection, but because of the fear of the imaginary consequences of the rejection. You fear that the girl won't like you, and it'll hurt for days, or even weeks if you get shot down. You fear that you will be depressed.
Honestly, don't tell me that you care about what a stranger thinks of you. If you do, you shouldn't consentrate about picking up girls. You should consentrate on your self-confindence, and read this post again when you think you're ready.
Ok, now we have made three points clear;
1. You're not afraid to approach because of the fear of rejection, but because of the imaginary consequences of getting rejected.
2. You don't care about what a stranger thinks of you.
3. You know that you're a great guy.
This means that it's no biggie to get shot down.
You're a DJ. You know many things others don't, and never will.
See it from the girls' side. They can't understand why you would be afraid of talking to them, as much as you don't understand why they are afraid of you. It's true! Girls who are dressed to impress are just as nerveuse as you when you approach them. "What if he thinks I'm ugly?" "Does he think I'm fat?" "How's my make-up?" etc etc. Why else would they be all dressed up?
The initial approach is not just for you to prove that you're worthy her time, it's for you to find out if she's worthy your time. If not, move on. You can choose who you want to spend your time with. She has to pick between the guys who approaches her.
Btw, it's really fun to use crappy lines...
Funny as hell when they reject you..
Hope you liked the post..
If you never told a girl your feelings for her; How do you know that rejections hurts? Really, it doesn't hurt as much as you imagine it.
You don't approach, not because of the fear of rejection, but because of the fear of the imaginary consequences of the rejection. You fear that the girl won't like you, and it'll hurt for days, or even weeks if you get shot down. You fear that you will be depressed.
Honestly, don't tell me that you care about what a stranger thinks of you. If you do, you shouldn't consentrate about picking up girls. You should consentrate on your self-confindence, and read this post again when you think you're ready.
Ok, now we have made three points clear;
1. You're not afraid to approach because of the fear of rejection, but because of the imaginary consequences of getting rejected.
2. You don't care about what a stranger thinks of you.
3. You know that you're a great guy.
This means that it's no biggie to get shot down.
You're a DJ. You know many things others don't, and never will.
See it from the girls' side. They can't understand why you would be afraid of talking to them, as much as you don't understand why they are afraid of you. It's true! Girls who are dressed to impress are just as nerveuse as you when you approach them. "What if he thinks I'm ugly?" "Does he think I'm fat?" "How's my make-up?" etc etc. Why else would they be all dressed up?
The initial approach is not just for you to prove that you're worthy her time, it's for you to find out if she's worthy your time. If not, move on. You can choose who you want to spend your time with. She has to pick between the guys who approaches her.
Btw, it's really fun to use crappy lines...
Funny as hell when they reject you..Hope you liked the post..
