The proper mental attitude is everything

Mr_Morden

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While surfing the forum for a few months now time and time I have noticed many many posts about the proper mental attitude when dealing with women. You can look the part of a strong, confident Don Juan, but if the mental attitude to back it up is not there then you come off as a fake and can lose that "10" you are working on. So while I was watching the Disney movie Mulan with my niece there was a song during one of the scenes called "Be a Man". Beleive it or not even Disney knows how to be a Don Juan, the main points of the song are as follows:

A Man:
Must be swift as the coursing rain
With all the force of a great typhoon
With all the strength of a raging fire
Mysterious as the dark side of the moon

The song encompases most of the proper mental attitude aspiring Don Juans' need to have.

Must be swift like the rain: move in with out hesitation, knowing what you want and going for it.

Like a typhoon sweeping in, overpowering her defenses with your confidence, and friendlyness.

Being a raging fire by not taking her ****, showing that you are strong enough to not need her but would like to have her company.

And finally you must be mysterious you need make her interested in you by not volunteering information. Remain mysterious, make her want to get to know you!

I just thought the movie was ironic for us aspiring Don Juans'. Hope this helps someone because it has become my confidence booster when going after women.

As Sun Tzu said "When weak appear strong, when strong appear weak."
 

Man Of Adventure

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Originally posted by Mr_Morden:

While surfing the forum for a few months now time and time I have noticed many many posts about the proper mental attitude when dealing with women. You can look the part of a strong, confident Don Juan, but if the mental attitude to back it up is not there then you come off as a fake and can lose that "10" you are working on. So while I was watching the Disney movie Mulan with my niece there was a song during one of the scenes called "Be a Man". Beleive it or not even Disney knows how to be a Don Juan, the main points of the song are as follows:

A Man:
Must be swift as the coursing rain
With all the force of a great typhoon
With all the strength of a raging fire
Mysterious as the dark side of the moon

The song encompases most of the proper mental attitude aspiring Don Juans' need to have.

Must be swift like the rain: move in with out hesitation, knowing what you want and going for it.

Like a typhoon sweeping in, overpowering her defenses with your confidence, and friendlyness.

Being a raging fire by not taking her ****, showing that you are strong enough to not need her but would like to have her company.

And finally you must be mysterious you need make her interested in you by not volunteering information. Remain mysterious, make her want to get to know you!

I just thought the movie was ironic for us aspiring Don Juans'. Hope this helps someone because it has become my confidence booster when going after women.

As Sun Tzu said "When weak appear strong, when strong appear weak."
This post feels good..you know like getting back to nature.Its just a great feeling.Yeah Id say A Man can be that.You know Im not exactly all of that..I try to make it even simpler.Take what I want.Then do what you need to to accomplish...and If what that song says with what I feel comfortable with doing..yep I would be that.Good advice.

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Whats this Man going to do now???Lets just find out. - Man Of Adventure
 

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Originally posted by Drew:
To the Tips Forum.

When did Drew become a Moderator? I smell conspiracy
 
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