“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The Power of the Embrace

MidwestFreek

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This is something that only will work once you've had a reasonable impression on the girl, it's getting a hug.

Simple way to get a hug, when they go to leave, just say "Oh no, you aren't leaving til I get a hug". I've done this to a group of 5 or 6 girls, and they all lined up to give me a hug before getting in the van.(Note: Only try the hug if you plan on seeing her again to work some more magic. Hugging some chick you just met at a bar that you were planning on tryin to get for a night of fun, prolly won't work. Also, shes gotta be somewhat comfortable with you as it is.) Most often, they'll give you a hug. It's a hug, nothing dangerous about it. You don't need a condom. And it's very unlikely that much will result from it. Or so she thinks.

I've been told numerous times that I give wonderful hugs. Simple way to give a good hug, the full embrace. Most guys wont wrap their arms all the way around when they give a girl a hug. Don't know why. It's easy. One arm wrapped up around the upper back (around the bra line or so) and one arm about 2-3 inches below that, just give a firm sort of squeeze. Don't make her intestines pop out of her nose, just firm, but not light, and not hard. There's a difference between all of those. It's an easy kino and when youre done with the hug, simply just slide your hands down to her waist and say your goodbyes.
When I asked a friend of mine to tell me why she liked my hugs...I got this as a response

" Its just the way u hug that's so great about them…you completely wrap your arms around me and hold tight….sometimes I don't wanna let go…and sometimes youll slightly rock back and forth…its comforting"

Pros to the Hug:
1. Relaxes them and put them at ease. You're not such a creepy fellow after all.
2. Kino, nuff said.
3. The subtle sliding of the hands to the hips RIGHT after you pull back from the hug, is another kino, only a little bit stronger.
4. Chicks love the feeling of being held and pulled close to a mans body, they just do.
5. Easy way to find out if shes wearin a bra ;-)


If done wrong, you'll kill her and she wont be able to complain...so get your hug on!

~Freek
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

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Very nice! I will definantly try to hug the chicks more often! bye the way, the part about intestins coming out her nose was a good luagh and the findong out if she has a bra? priceless.
 

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The pro list you made about hugging was funny and great. They're all true and it makes the girls happy.
 

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lol very true...the funniest thing to see is that if uve given a bunch of girls hugs before..and they like it..iwhen ur hangin out iwth all of em..n u have to leave..they all line up to get a hug...its very humorous..
 

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just watch out you dont get a raging hard-on on girl number one and have to go thru the whole line...that'd give em something to talk about in 'the van'
 

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lol i never pop one when givin hugs...u usually need a little more to get me goin...n its not like ur feelin em up neways lol
 

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excellent tip, this is what I do all the time and have never had a bad reaction
 

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just watch out you dont get a raging hard-on on girl number one and have to go thru the whole line...that'd give em something to talk about in 'the van'
:p That's awesome. Excellent tip, too.
 

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Nice tip, good work! :)
 

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So so tru. I wil put this tactic into effect immediatly.
 

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Very true- I've known girls to, in their spare time, sit and imagine themselves being held by different guys, and decide which one they like best.
 

MidwestFreek

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Originally posted by E-Z Rider
Very true- I've known girls to, in their spare time, sit and imagine themselves being held by different guys, and decide which one they like best.

never known that to happen..but like most guys..im not in their heads...but hey..i kno that chicks sometimes come up to me at random and hug me..if theyve gotten one before...and when im leavin from hangin out with some female friends of mine..first thing...is a hug..
 

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This sounds like very good and logical advice. I've always been the sort of distant, one arm hug type of person, but I'll give this tip a try from now on.
 

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hugs are good, sparingly. im sure youve seen guys that always hug chicks. if you dont move any further soon after youre hugging her she sees it as a sign of a wus. "is all he can do is hug me?" just make sure you do more than hug later
 

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i agree...never offer a hug...if theres a girl u want to work the embrace magic on...just be like "i can tell by the look in ur eye...u wanna hug me" or something like that...i dont know...i never have to offer...but when the word gets aronud that u give good hugs...chicks will want hugs at random...every once in a while...add some humor to it...after the first couple times u hug a chick...during the hug...grab an ass....or..when shes walkin away...light slap...but watch what kind of girl u do it to..some will not like it...some will get mad at you..but then be even closer the next day..and some will just turn and give u a huge smile...but heres the key...dont give a girl a hug everytime she wants one...thats being at her disposal...if u see her every day..and she wants a hug..every day..give her one on day one...one on day two...tell her ur shoulder hurts real bad on day three...give her one on day four...on day five be like "i suppose"..u get the picture...just dont give in every single time..sometimes make it look like u really want to give her one...and every now n then (occasionally...never very often) give her the subtle impression that ur in a hurry..or not in the hugging mood or something similar...but yes...if ur gonna hug...make sure u end up taking it up a notch sometime in the near future...just like lt dan said
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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any other tips on how to 'ask' for a hug? im having trouble with this one. i dunno how to 'ask' for one. how much is 'comfortable'?
 

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I need the same help that DJ Alejandro does. When is the best time to give a hug. I have only gotten a very small number of hugs from girls in my life so I'm not very comfortable giving them. But I really want to.

So if I talked to a girl everyday in class for a couple of months an almost allways walked her to her car I should give her a hug next time I say bye? For example we get to her car instead of the usual exchange of byes and waves I just say "Give me a hug" and do it?

Too bad my practice dummy is on vacation now.
 

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don't ask for a hug, ORDER her to give you a hug
demand it!




damn, haven't you punks read the DJ Bible and stuff?
be a man!
:D


Also.......try to smell good when you go hug a girl.
One girl had a high interest level in me and would love to hug me partly because I smelled good. And I 'm a gorgeous hunk!

Bahahahahah!
 

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haha yes..smell good...when u walk her to her car...n ur sayin ur good byes..just hold ur arms out like u expect her to give u a hug...i mean how dare she deny you a hug? her arms should be up around ur neck like u were slow dancing..and both of your arms wrapped around back..none of this alternating thing a lot of people do where one arm is across the shoulder and one arm is down around the waist..thats not good...remember...as u finish the hug...dont remove ur hands right away..slide them down the small of her back adn then forward along her hips...look her in the eyes..smile...and then walk away...bonus points...as ur huggin her..whisper somethin in her ear...whether its "call me"..."ill see you later" or whatever u want to say...whisper it softly...right..in her..ear...i might do some revisions of this because you guys are definitely asking questions that i should have put in my article...keep em comin..u might even help me out on this one
 
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