Master Don Juan
- Nov 17, 2019
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I feel recognised.Just by your description alone I would say that he is unsalvageable. A dominant-overbearing mother is the worst. It is generally permanently disabling.
Chances are 50/50 that he had sexual contact with his mother as well. I am no stupid psychiatrist but I’ve seen it before.
If you could separate him from his mother he would most likely get better. He’s done.
more sound thinking is to bring up men that are close to escaping the plantation. They deserve it most. They did not go fully into agreement with the feminine imperative growing up. Self determinism.
Your natural players, those who aren’t psychotic, just didn’t go into agreement growing up, so they were able to escape it early on.
The others? Let them go.
Thank you sincerely, you see I want this for him if I never even see him again, even if he's not in my life.
This was what I was about.
Not trying to take over as the 'domineering mother' to him when she was out of the picture.
Stockholm syndrome runs deep.
As for the sexual abuse, can her making inappropriate admiring comments about his privates to other people be considered that type of abuse?
Other than that it was just physical and mental/emotional abuse.
Note: there is 100% no contact and I have let him go. Just bringing him up as a case study, so-to-speak