- May 18, 2022
- Reaction score
- Darwin, Australia
It still hurts. Perhaps I had oneitis. First relationship in a long time. We would usually see each other around 3 times a week. When we were with each other, it was amazing. And then all of a sudden, it just got too hard (I do think the final decision was a bit of a hormonal meltdown), and it was over. Yet a week before that, she gave me a gold keychain with an inscription stating she loved me, and the date we met. Bit of a headf!ck.Thanks for more background, you said a magic sentence in there that told me everything i needed to know.
"I was the lowest priority."
This tells me the relationship meant nothing to her. So when someone makes you their lowest priority, they become your lowest priority.
You are now too busy for her. She blew her chance. If you entertain her breadcrumbing now you will be teaching her, it is ok to do it to you again and again.
Stop going the extra mile for people who won't cross the street for you.