Been 2 years since my last serious NC.
There is a girl which gave me hard time since August. I did all the things that the man should not do:
Today was the last drop. I had "the talk" with the girl when i texted - "are you going with me on the trip or I will block you and will never talk with you again?". It might sound weird but i don't wanna go deep in the context behind this text (the flaked ton of times on my invitations, did not respond on my text and played all sort of games). So she said "I really like to be with you....please do not block me" and in general that every time I ask her out she has stuff to do. I said "what are you doing tonight" - she sent me photo with her and friends having dinner, than "what about tomorrow" - she is going with friends somewhere again. I called her out and said - if the person wants to be with another person she will find the time, otherwise it is all BS. She replied that she tells true and it is not BS, she is a busy girl.
- overreacted when she refused to come over to my place
- double texted
- kept chasing
- tried to fix stuff and reatract the girl
I blocked her number after that message, blocked IG. No Contact day 0.
Thanks for the support.. i dont really think she even has real friends.She ASKED you to block her? Definitely a drama queen/AW alert with this one. Wants to tell all of her friends she is blocked by you for extra attention. I would one-up her and just deactivate the account altogether. When she sees you completely gone from the social media scene she will probably panic.
Regardless, good luck with it, brother. You will find a lot of good stuff in this thread for dealing with this.