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Not reaching out would have been a a lot better option maybe you wanted one last sex, but she was not ready that's why walking away is the best possible negotiation for any man when a woman dumps him.Reached out to ex over the weekend. Felt the time was right as I was mentally in a good place of detachment. Spoke on the phone and met her the next day. Tried getting back with her. Turns out she thought I'd dumped her, which may have been the case. Although she admitted that she was thinking about ending things. Long story short. Tried to rekindle. She resisted strongly for the first few hours but eventually she settled, we had some wine and I took her back to my place where we had sex. But emotionally she has moved on now and was adamant she wasn't interested in a relationship or seeing me casually. She's entirely driven by her feelings, even more than most woman. It was clear the image of me as her boyfriend wasn't going to return.
I got the inevitable text this morning, when I tried to suggest we grab another drink. She didn't want to see me again, maybe as friends in the future months from now but not right now blah blah blah. It hurt more than expected but I recovered quickly and hit the gym. We parted on good terms and I'm happy with how things ended especially as she told me she had spent the last three weeks thinking I hated her. This is a much more mature and positive end than my previous serious relationships.
So now I feel free to just enjoy life and see what other possibilities are out there. I learned a lot from my experiences with her and have set myself up to develop into a better man for both myself and the next one. It was a nice way to close that chapter of my life. So that's it fellas. I won't be updating the NC thread again, in relation to this experience since for me this is just the first day of a new chapter. Best of luck to the rest of you.
How long before she reached to you?Ex gf wants to see me again. She wanted to spend her last days in the city with me before she heads back to Italy to visit family. I told her in as romantic a way as possible that I wasn't interested unless I could fvck her. She complied but doesn't want the obligations of a relationship at the moment. For me this was the ideal situation I was hoping for.
I can keep her in my life as a friend and plate while meeting new women and forming new relationships completely guilt free.
I have a date with the ex this evening and dates with two of my other plates on Thursday and Friday.
NC has given me everything I wanted. It forced me out of my laziness and necessitated a routine I'm really happy with. Gym 6 days a week, spinning plates, reading more books, a commitment to improving my emotional intelligence, travelling regularly. I would have done none of these things if I'd stuck to the routine I had with my ex gf.
Travelling to Spain with work end of the month. Planning to book a trip to Barcelona for end of August and then Milan in October. Life is good.
I dumped her so I reached out after three weeks.How long before she reached to you?
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