Yes Weezy, it was the day it started Aug.19. It began with a text. I didn't mention the other person in her life in the text. I was being neutral. But she was not. It then lead into an IM later.She brought a sense of bitterness, like her decision was still my fault ultimately. She placed quick and thoughtless responses that even shocked me, meaning like no thought behind them just in attack mode. I left off like "take care, and maybe we can talk someday in Sept.", she said "I'll think about it". After that I also found out two weeks after the break up she also went to Vegas. That's why I said she was a good actress. Come to find out she is some type of wannabe socialite now. This is someone who I knew for 5 yrs. and it felt like someone who totally betrayed my trust now. I can't see her the same. Up until now I realize that I really have to remain NC. I already got slammed down, it's my choice to stay down or get up. I chose to get up. I won't lie I did some moping, but being with friends and family, and doing things that interest me have helped a great deal. She had some negative stress happening with her in that IM session, so I will let her stress; stress herself out, I don't need to be the vent.