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Welcome brother! You are on the right path now!someshwar said:Followed ur advice admin. I was way too devastated after she broke up wid me and got herself a new bf. Bt i still kept contact wd her. But it really pains lyk hell. So im following ur advice in hope to get healed
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Noyou said:Went on an engineering trip for a whole week. Within the week:
1. Made a name for myself to people in the high ups
2. Enjoyed the freedom to go tour the sights
3. I had 30-40 year old women hit on me at bars and at the beach. Welcomed 2 propositions. Was amazing. I was safe too, but it....was....amazing!
4. Lived it large and toured 4 beaches in the area.
5. Final 2 days, met a woman at the meeting that just came back from business. We started to talk and she is AMAZING. Good looking, same likes, beliefs, wants, needs, etc. Any other time I'd want to house "renovation" with our bodies.....but I didn't have the urge to do such. Instead we went out on the town and we hit it off, and eventually kisses at the end of the night and enjoyed each others company at the suite I was staying. We are keeping in touch. I got her a little momento before I left and I was sad that I only had 2 days with this amazing woman.
Now I'm back in town, she's still texting and calling me and I'm getting ready to better my company with my new found knowledge.
Who is this ex of mine again and why was I with her?
totally agree with you jariel.......im glad your doing well my friend , i can remember when you were posting on here , i could tell you was in a lot of pain brother........well done mate im made up for ya....Jariel said:Just a quick post from me. I guess most of you posting here today don't know me, but I was a regular poster in this thread from September last year when my ex and I broke up. It was one of the darkest times in my life and if it wasn't for the good people here, the support and the people who could relate to what I was going through, I would hate to think what I would've done.
But I'm here many months later just to tell you it does get better. I would be lying if I said I stopped thinking of my ex as I still think of her a lot and I still miss her, but life has moved on and it has turned out to be a positive lesson for me.
What I didn't understand at the time was that I NEEDED the break up to happen in order to learn, grow and toughen up. I am not the same person I was when we broke up. I am in better physical shape, I am wiser, more confident, more experienced and a lot more attractive to women.
Right now, I'm dating a 6 foot glamour model...and former Playboy pin up and she's fvcking obsessed with me! I'm not lying or exaggerating. She takes photos of us together and shares them with her friends and posts them to Facebook, she wants to see me every day and does anything I want. The sex is unbelievable and we're doing things I've never done before!
The crazy thing about all this is that most of you are seeking ways to get back with your ex, convince her you're different and it can work, but you're at your least attractive and most downtrodden state you've ever been in right now. If you ever hope to get back to the man she fell for, or better, you need to take a long time out and move forward.
If I'd seen my ex within 6 months of us breaking up, she would've seen a desperate man trying to cover up his pain and neediness with techniques and acting. But if she saw me today, she would see a man who is bold and confident, upbeat and in control, and I'm pretty damn sure she'd like what she saw.
Trust me guys (and girls). You need to be in this for the long haul. Counting down the weeks until you can make contact is futile. You need to become a new person and truly learn from your experience.
One day you will realise that all this pain you are going through is necessary. Because without the pain, this lesson would not have impacted you enough to change.
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J4m1e said:I'm really suffering with the NC too.
I've broken it a number of times because I keep hitting set-backs. She's dating someone new and although she's told me it isn't anything serious I can't help but check her FB and Instagram and there's a couple of pictures of them together. It hurts. She told me that she is finding it hard to be apart too but that she doesn't have the courage to try again with me. She's hurting and I know I need to give her time to miss me more to realise what she really wants.
Today is my 2nd day of no contact.
I think about her constantly and in some sick way I don't want to stop.
I know it will get easier but that don't help the present.