The first part basically discussed how society is a trap that to me is the source of what I like to call the soft male, which it is. I also compared and contrasted it with the life of girls in society and how their lives are pretty much as meaningless as the soft male’s. This part now focuses more on what makes the soft male soft and what we may be in store for in the future.
The Soft Male – At A Glance
The soft male today is a product of society; shaped mostly by single mothers. Since divorce rates are tragically high, there seldomly is a father figure in their life. Their lives are molded by either mothers. From what I have observed, the majority of single mothers both hate and want men. They hate how they somehow screwed them over yet want them because they want a father to raise their child, as well as the mother’s sexual needs that were left unfulfilled. The end result is that the child becomes a nice guy more often than not, having little to no sexuality.
Why teach their son about masculinity? The single mothers are more afraid of masculinity than anything else. They are afraid that if they teach their son to become a man, he will just f*ck around and basically leave the girl like what happened to her. So she does the opposite, trying to make him more feminized than before. Penis not included, you could basically confuse a soft male for a woman with short hair.
When it comes time for puberty, due to all of his repressed thoughts of sexuality from his mother, he has no social skills to talk to women. All masculinity, DJ skills, etc. has all been tossed out the window. If he does have girlfriends, their relationships are so short lived because the soft male is inadequate to truly satisfy a girl. Keep in mind, the soft male can still get action here and there. To be honest, you can still be a nice guy and get laid as girls are getting progressively easier over the years. However he becomes enslaved by the females because the only parental figure he has is his mother.
“I just want the best for my little Johnny.”
Well, what most families are doing nowadays is reinforcing inactivity. Back when I was a kid, I was outdoors 90% of the time. The other 10% was for eating (even then I wanted to eat outside) and sleep. The rest of the time I was riding my bike, playing baseball with friends, and all the other stuff that used to be the norm. However instead of bikes, kids are getting PlayStation 2s.
“Forget going to the park today; how about we just watch a DVD and then play some Tony Hawk?”
What is being taught here is that kids are become more and more inactive. Why do you see so many fat kids? We probably ate as much as they did, if not more yet we were thin. The problem is that they are so inactive that they just don’t burn it off and grow fat. Then it accumulates over time. Then in high school when they are called fatasses, the fatasses across the country (this growth in obesity is mostly a problem in the US) whine and moan about how they wished they were treated with respect and like they are any person. Yet why should they?
Another thing. They think they should have the same dignity because they have been fed with a silver, almost golden spoon. When I was a kid, I wanted a SNES so bad when it first came out but it was like $200-300 at the time. When I asked for that for Christmas, they told me they’ll never buy me one at that price. I got mad and I got other gifts that I was fine with. See, my parents held their ground and I feel I benefitted from that. However if Johnny wanted to get a PS2, his mom would rush out to the store and buy one for him. That’s why its said that the video game industry has exploded in size in the past few years.
Single moms don’t know any better because girls usually stayed in the house and played with dolls. Boys typically were adventurous, curious, and had a taste for excitement. The moms don’t understand this concept and think that a PS2 is a much better idea than the bike. Also because its like a babysitter so she doesn’t have to parent (but that’s for another story)
As a result, what is being created now is a huge tidal wave of soft males, here to completely fudge up their chances with the female sex. I suppose that’s good for us so that way if we are still single in our 30s, we can still hit up the early 20’s girls because they will be frustrated at the utter lack of real men.
Already the male gender is slipping fast
Dr. Laura Schlessinger, a radio psychologist who pushes the nice guy/AFC attributes, is an enemy of mine personally. However she said something that was completely shocking and I agree with her. She was outraged at this one cartoon (it may have been Care Bears as this was a little while ago so my memory is not perfectly clear on this) that promoted male worthlessness. She said the plot of the cartoon was this: It was a typical boys vs. girls battle. The challenge was to build a fort and see who could build it better. While the girls were creating a palace, the boys often bumbled around, and failed at it. She was outraged! She suggested that maybe both would have troubles and would combine efforts to create two palaces.
That would be true equal rights but we have this weird equal rights setup.
Weird as in untrue. Women today continually push more and more out of men because they can. If you disagree with a woman, you are a sexist pig who is trying to hold them down. Women today want all the benefits of equal rights without any of the consequences. They don’t want more responsibility, higher taxes, higher car insurance, etc. because that is just unfair to them. They do however want to be promoted to high positions (despite working less than ½ the time of their male colleagues), equal pay, and basically more dominance in society. Then when they get their way, its never enough and they keep pushing harder and harder. Yet soft males keep giving in.
Another story was reported by Dateline where they reported that boys are quickly losing the skills boys did 10 years ago (basically my subgeneration) as in intelligence. Yes, boys are quickly getting duller and duller because instead of teaching action (going outside, messing around with stuff), they are forced to sit down and learn by watching and reading. Some schools are now year-round, quickly eliminating active time for boys. They say its because there are less farmers now but truth to be told, there is a lot more affected here than just farming.
I almost feel sorry for males nowadays.
The Soft Male – At A Glance
The soft male today is a product of society; shaped mostly by single mothers. Since divorce rates are tragically high, there seldomly is a father figure in their life. Their lives are molded by either mothers. From what I have observed, the majority of single mothers both hate and want men. They hate how they somehow screwed them over yet want them because they want a father to raise their child, as well as the mother’s sexual needs that were left unfulfilled. The end result is that the child becomes a nice guy more often than not, having little to no sexuality.
Why teach their son about masculinity? The single mothers are more afraid of masculinity than anything else. They are afraid that if they teach their son to become a man, he will just f*ck around and basically leave the girl like what happened to her. So she does the opposite, trying to make him more feminized than before. Penis not included, you could basically confuse a soft male for a woman with short hair.
When it comes time for puberty, due to all of his repressed thoughts of sexuality from his mother, he has no social skills to talk to women. All masculinity, DJ skills, etc. has all been tossed out the window. If he does have girlfriends, their relationships are so short lived because the soft male is inadequate to truly satisfy a girl. Keep in mind, the soft male can still get action here and there. To be honest, you can still be a nice guy and get laid as girls are getting progressively easier over the years. However he becomes enslaved by the females because the only parental figure he has is his mother.
“I just want the best for my little Johnny.”
Well, what most families are doing nowadays is reinforcing inactivity. Back when I was a kid, I was outdoors 90% of the time. The other 10% was for eating (even then I wanted to eat outside) and sleep. The rest of the time I was riding my bike, playing baseball with friends, and all the other stuff that used to be the norm. However instead of bikes, kids are getting PlayStation 2s.
“Forget going to the park today; how about we just watch a DVD and then play some Tony Hawk?”
What is being taught here is that kids are become more and more inactive. Why do you see so many fat kids? We probably ate as much as they did, if not more yet we were thin. The problem is that they are so inactive that they just don’t burn it off and grow fat. Then it accumulates over time. Then in high school when they are called fatasses, the fatasses across the country (this growth in obesity is mostly a problem in the US) whine and moan about how they wished they were treated with respect and like they are any person. Yet why should they?
Another thing. They think they should have the same dignity because they have been fed with a silver, almost golden spoon. When I was a kid, I wanted a SNES so bad when it first came out but it was like $200-300 at the time. When I asked for that for Christmas, they told me they’ll never buy me one at that price. I got mad and I got other gifts that I was fine with. See, my parents held their ground and I feel I benefitted from that. However if Johnny wanted to get a PS2, his mom would rush out to the store and buy one for him. That’s why its said that the video game industry has exploded in size in the past few years.
Single moms don’t know any better because girls usually stayed in the house and played with dolls. Boys typically were adventurous, curious, and had a taste for excitement. The moms don’t understand this concept and think that a PS2 is a much better idea than the bike. Also because its like a babysitter so she doesn’t have to parent (but that’s for another story)
As a result, what is being created now is a huge tidal wave of soft males, here to completely fudge up their chances with the female sex. I suppose that’s good for us so that way if we are still single in our 30s, we can still hit up the early 20’s girls because they will be frustrated at the utter lack of real men.
Already the male gender is slipping fast
Dr. Laura Schlessinger, a radio psychologist who pushes the nice guy/AFC attributes, is an enemy of mine personally. However she said something that was completely shocking and I agree with her. She was outraged at this one cartoon (it may have been Care Bears as this was a little while ago so my memory is not perfectly clear on this) that promoted male worthlessness. She said the plot of the cartoon was this: It was a typical boys vs. girls battle. The challenge was to build a fort and see who could build it better. While the girls were creating a palace, the boys often bumbled around, and failed at it. She was outraged! She suggested that maybe both would have troubles and would combine efforts to create two palaces.
That would be true equal rights but we have this weird equal rights setup.
Weird as in untrue. Women today continually push more and more out of men because they can. If you disagree with a woman, you are a sexist pig who is trying to hold them down. Women today want all the benefits of equal rights without any of the consequences. They don’t want more responsibility, higher taxes, higher car insurance, etc. because that is just unfair to them. They do however want to be promoted to high positions (despite working less than ½ the time of their male colleagues), equal pay, and basically more dominance in society. Then when they get their way, its never enough and they keep pushing harder and harder. Yet soft males keep giving in.
Another story was reported by Dateline where they reported that boys are quickly losing the skills boys did 10 years ago (basically my subgeneration) as in intelligence. Yes, boys are quickly getting duller and duller because instead of teaching action (going outside, messing around with stuff), they are forced to sit down and learn by watching and reading. Some schools are now year-round, quickly eliminating active time for boys. They say its because there are less farmers now but truth to be told, there is a lot more affected here than just farming.
I almost feel sorry for males nowadays.
