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SHOULD I ASK HER OUT ???

  • NO

    Votes: 2 40.0%
  • YES

    Votes: 3 60.0%

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jboy73

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I ABOUT A FEW WEEKS AGO I ASKED FOR SOME HELP WHEN MY EX CAME BACK INTO MY LIFE AFTER A YEAR ,TELLING ME THAT SHE HAD BEEN FAITHFUL AND HADN'T SLEPT WITH ANY BODY SINCE WE BROKE UP.
SHE WROTE ME MESSAGES AND DID ALL THIS STUFF TRYING TO WIN ME BACK.
THANKS TO ALL THE GREAT ADVICE THAT YOU GUYS GAVE ME I DID NOT TRUST HER AND BEGAN DIGGING THOUGH THE DIRT AND FOUND OUT THAT SHE HAD BEEN WITH SOMEONE ELSE AND HAD LIED TO ME . NEEDLESS TO SAY I GAVE HER THE BOOT... BUT IT WAS BECAUSE OF YOU GUYS THAT I DID NOT DO ANYTHING I WOULD HAVE REGRETTED..
YOU GUYS MADE ME SEE HER FOR WHAT SHE TRULY WAS ... GARBAGE...
I THANK EACH AND EVERY ONE OF YOU FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART :)
YOU GUYS SAVED MY ASS.
THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU ALL AND GOD BLESS :)

I HAVE A NEW PROBLEM THAT I AM HOPING THAT YOU WILL GIVE ME SOME ADVICE ON..
HERE IT IS...

THERE IS THIS WOMEN I LIKE WHERE I WORK , WELL ACTUALLY WE ONLY WORK TOGETHER ONCE EVERY OTHER WEEK.
YOU SEE MY JOB IS MANAGING AND ORDERING GROCERY ITEMS,
AND SHE IS A SALES REP FOR A HUGE COMPANY THAT I ORDER FROM. SHE COMES IN ONCE EVERY OTHER WEEK AND TOGETHER WE ORDER WHAT I NEED.
WE HAVE BEEN DOING THAT FOR YEARS.

WE BROKE UP FROM OUR EX'S AT EXACTLY THE SAME TIME ONE YEAR AGO.WE ALWAYS ENGAGE IN SMALL TALK AND SHE IS ALWAYS TELLING ME WHAT SHE IS TRYING NEXT TO FIND SOMEONE.
WE SHARE STORYS
LIKE ONCE SHE TOLD ME THAT SHE WAS GOING ON A SINGLESCRUISE THAT WAS AWHILE AGO. RECENTLY SHE TOLD ME SHE HAD PLACED A PERSONAL AD.
AND SHE TOLD ME WHERE SHE PLACED THE PERSONAL AD.
WHICH I OF COURSE DOWN LOADED AND READ WITHOUT TELLING HER AND SAW THAT WE HAVE EVEN MORE IN COMMON.

AND SHE ALSO TELLS ME WHEN SHE MEETS SOMEONE AND GO'S OUT WITH THEM. AND SHE NORMALLY TELLS ME AFTER A MONTH OR SO THAT IT DIDN'T WORK OUT.

SOMETIMES WHEN I ASKED HER HOW HER WEEK HAS BEEN SHES MUMBLES LONELY. OR THAT SHE DIDN'T DO SOMETHING BECAUSE SHE HAD NO ONE TO DO IT WITH.
BUT SHE SAYS IT IN A PLEASANT WAY.
SHE IS REALLY UPBEAT.
I TELL HER PRETTY MUCH THE SAME THINGS.
WE SEEM TO GET ALONG PRETTY WELL.
I TELL YA I REALLY FEEL THAT WE COULD WORK OUT BECAUSE WE ARE REALLY ON THE SAME PAGE. SOMETIMES I THINK THAT THE WHOLE THING IS REDICULOUS. I MEAN SHE IS DOING HER THING TO FIND SOME LOVE AND I AM DOING MY THING TO FIND SOME LOVE AND WE HAVEN'T FOUND ANYONE!!! BUT WE NEVER EVER MENTIONED THAT THE ANSWER COULD BE LOOKING AT US RIGHT IN THE FACE.

IT'S LIKE HELLO? HOW ABOUT US HOOKING UP?...

I SOMETIMES GET SHY AROUND HER BUT I FEEL I HAVE TO DO THIS..

WE ARE BOTH VERY MATURE. THERE IS A SMALL AGE DIIFERENCE HOWEVER..
SHE IS 37 AND I AM 30. BUT
OUR CONVERSATIONS ARE STIMULATING
BUT IT NEVER GOES ON FOR LONG BECAUSE WE ARE BOTH REALLY PROFESSIONAL ABOUT OUR JOBS.
AND WE ARE ALWAYS VERY BUSY.
WE BOTH HAVE A STRONG WORK ETHIC.

I WOULD LOVE TO ASK HER OUT BUT AT THE SAME TIME I HAVE GOTTEN VERY LITTLE INFO AS TO IF SHE LIKES ME.
ALSO I DON'T WANT HER TO FREAK OUT IF I ASK HER OUT. WE DO A LOT OF BUSINESS TOGETHER AND I DON'T WANT IT TO BE A PROBLEM.

BUT I JUST HAVE THIS FEELING THAT WE COULD REALLY CLICK TOGETHER.
SHOULD I ASK HER OUT AND GIVE IT A TRY ? IF SO HOW SHOULD I GO ABOUT IT.? THIS HAS TO BE HANDLED VERY GENTLY.

P.S. SHE IS VERY , VERY, HOT...
 

jboy73

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i am really sorry for the caps.
i didn't even realize it.
sorry if it bothers anyone...
i really am..
 

HuuBinh

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I'd say take a risk and ask her out. Tell her that : "(her name) you are the person that really understands I feel and what I'm going through, and I feel that we have a lot in common through our many conversations, and it seems to me that we both have looked for happiness in all the wrong places. I know that both you and I deserve to be happy and because of that I realli like to get to know you better on a personal level. I dont know how you'd feel about all this but I'd love to have dinner with you. " O.K. if she gives you a positive response then set up a date and time. If she freaks out or surprises when after hearing this, you have to immediately assure her that what you've said will not affect you working with her in any way, and you just have a feeling that you both can be happy.

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