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Let's have fun with this one. I just won a company contest that includes an all expenses paid trip for 2 to Cancun. Of the 2 women I'm seeing, I definitely don't think I'd want them to accompany me. I don't want them to think they're special or anything like that. However I'm toying with the idea of negotiating something with an escort by saying I'll take care of the airfare and hotel and she just has to do what escorts do.

Good idea? or bad idea?

I will be joined by 5 other people from the company who also won in their respective territories and neither of us really know each other and report to different departments. No direct supervision for any of us.
 

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Sounds like potential drama in an environment where you don't want it.
 
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So you don't want to take any of your plates because you don't want to make them feel special, but you're going to 'pay' for an escort's airfare and hotel to go with you? That's pretty simp if you ask me, and I don't ever use that term
 

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This reminds of a corporate holiday party I once went to. Someone brought an attractive young lady who was very obviously an escort. She got drunk, did a bunch of stupid stuff and to top it all off, tripped and fell on the dance floor. Embarrassed the hell out of the guy. By the end of the night, everyone was gossiping about it.

The lesson to be learned here is that you don’t want to bring someone you don’t know to a work-related event.
 

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She'd want money for her time. Is it possible to go solo?
 

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Good idea? or bad idea?
Bad idea

This reminds of a corporate holiday party I once went to. Someone brought an attractive young lady who was very obviously an escort. She got drunk, did a bunch of stupid stuff and to top it all off, tripped and fell on the dance floor. Embarrassed the hell out of the guy. By the end of the night, everyone was gossiping about it.

The lesson to be learned here is that you don’t want to bring someone you don’t know to a work-related event.
Yes. I wouldn't even bring a fairly new girlfriend to a company holiday party or other work-related event. I think a good guideline for a girlfriend to bring to work event is a girlfriend of 1 year or more.
 

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So you don't want to take any of your plates because you don't want to make them feel special, but you're going to 'pay' for an escort's airfare and hotel to go with you? That's pretty simp if you ask me, and I don't ever use that term
includes an all expenses paid
She'd want money for her time. Is it possible to go solo?
It is possible but typically everyone brings a spouse or significant other on these things.
 

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Are you aware that something like this would cost you a substantial amount of money? I'm not talking a couple grand either, most attractive escorts in various charge at least $300+ for an hour, some even close to $500 or more. I'm not even going to get into if it's a good or bad idea on a personal level. With that said, I guarantee you could find a way cheaper prospect that lives in Cancun, just an idea if you want to follow through with this. She very likely may not speak English, so if you are looking for someone to socialize with this would not be it.
 

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Are you also maybe not too keen to have your work mates see your plates? Are you embarrassed of being seen with them?
 

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Let's have fun with this one. I just won a company contest that includes an all expenses paid trip for 2 to Cancun. Of the 2 women I'm seeing, I definitely don't think I'd want them to accompany me. I don't want them to think they're special or anything like that. However I'm toying with the idea of negotiating something with an escort by saying I'll take care of the airfare and hotel and she just has to do what escorts do.

Good idea? or bad idea?

I will be joined by 5 other people from the company who also won in their respective territories and neither of us really know each other and report to different departments. No direct supervision for any of us.
Do it. What could possibly go wrong?
 

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I've never hired an escort before but this smells like trouble to me. Unless it's an escort you have seen enough times before to know she is legit and not a drama queen. If you do take her I would get all of the upfront terms in writing, if escorts will even do that. Kind of have me curious now how it all works since I'm an escort virgin.
 

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I've never hired an escort before but this smells like trouble to me. Unless it's an escort you have seen enough times before to know she is legit and not a drama queen. If you do take her I would get all of the upfront terms in writing, if escorts will even do that. Kind of have me curious now how it all works since I'm an escort virgin.
Sounds like a good way to get fired from your job. She could turn up looking like exactly what she is and get you kicked out of the hotel, she could blurt out something really stupid like "when are you going to pay me for this week?" right in front of your colleagues, and she could start hooking up with other men every time you leave the room. She could also go through your stuff and steal everything you have of value in the room, bring other guys back to your room fuk whilst you're out at the conference, get caught with weapons or drugs at the airport, have her pimp find out your address and start blackmailing you, etc etc. An expensive prostitute is still a prostitute. They're part of the damn underworld. She's a woman who goes out and gets banged by different men every day for money. I don't know how men think that these are women that they can trust.

Plus these women don't work for free - she's not going to consider half of a bed in a business hotel and an economy plane ticket as payment. She's going to want payment for the week up front in cash (and if you give it to her all at once, she'll probably just run off without performing).
 

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Are you also maybe not too keen to have your work mates see your plates? Are you embarrassed of being seen with them?
Not at all. We just haven't been dating long enough to bring them to a work function/trip.
Sounds like a good way to get fired from your job. She could turn up looking like exactly what she is and get you kicked out of the hotel, she could blurt out something really stupid like "when are you going to pay me for this week?" right in front of your colleagues, and she could start hooking up with other men every time you leave the room. She could also go through your stuff and steal everything you have of value in the room, bring other guys back to your room fuk whilst you're out at the conference, get caught with weapons or drugs at the airport, have her pimp find out your address and start blackmailing you, etc etc. An expensive prostitute is still a prostitute. They're part of the damn underworld. She's a woman who goes out and gets banged by different men every day for money. I don't know how men think that these are women that they can trust.

Plus these women don't work for free - she's not going to consider half of a bed in a business hotel and an economy plane ticket as payment. She's going to want payment for the week up front in cash (and if you give it to her all at once, she'll probably just run off without performing).
Lol man this is pretty specific stuff. Been through this before? But seriously though I agree some (or all) of these things could happen. Definitely not worth it.
 

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Pull a new plate and bring her.
 

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Let's have fun with this one. I just won a company contest that includes an all expenses paid trip for 2 to Cancun.
First of all..

What kind of company do you work for?? :up: :up:

Of the 2 women I'm seeing, I definitely don't think I'd want them to accompany me. I don't want them to think they're special or anything like that.
I understand what you are saying here, however, I would take a different route.

Whichever woman that I've found to be more worthy, I would take her.

Sometimes, a woman's character can break through any "I won't treat her special" barriers you put up and if she manages to do so, then treat her special.

However I'm toying with the idea of negotiating something with an escort by saying I'll take care of the airfare and hotel and she just has to do what escorts do.

Good idea? or bad idea?
So, you'd rather negotiate prices/rates with an escort and pay for her airfare and hotel expenses...rather than ask one of the women who are already in your rotation if she'd like to accompany you?

Not to mention the fact that im sure Cancun is crawling with escorts...you can save money on airfare and hotels by just hooking up with one there.
 

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I'd say a plate is more of a known quantity. If you feel neither of your current rotation warrant the trip, then don't.

I had an all expense paid trip lined up by one of my vendors a few weeks after I ended my marriage. I ended up going solo despite having a couple of plates at the time. It was a good time to think, and do what I wanted. I toyed with the idea of meeting an OLD contact from near where I had a layover. I let that one slip away.

I think I'd ask a buddy, and work on making some OLD contacts in Cancun for individual dates during the trip. if you don't hit it off send them home. If you like them they spend the night...
 

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Bring your mistress it cost less and people Will find it funny (seen it happen). It passes better (and Well if no one know your Personal life)

An escort, you Will pay $$$ for unknown results/disaster potentiel. Can you imagine if the escort has your co-workers for clients?

Save your money, you'll néed it.

I would bring a plate, get social proof at work from her
 

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Are you aware that something like this would cost you a substantial amount of money? I'm not talking a couple grand either, most attractive escorts in various charge at least $300+ for an hour, some even close to $500 or more. I'm not even going to get into if it's a good or bad idea on a personal level. With that said, I guarantee you could find a way cheaper prospect that lives in Cancun, just an idea if you want to follow through with this. She very likely may not speak English, so if you are looking for someone to socialize with this would not be it.
Yes, it makes absolutely no financial sense to bring an expensive hooker to a poor country. :rolleyes:
 

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Not at all. We just haven't been dating long enough to bring them to a work function/trip.

Lol man this is pretty specific stuff. Been through this before? But seriously though I agree some (or all) of these things could happen. Definitely not worth it.
This sh!t happens almost every time I take a prossie to a work conference. Last time I came back to my room there was a queue and I had to wait in line for an hour.

I've actually got a good mind to stop taking them.
 
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