Take everything you read online about "the best places to get laid" with a grain of salt

[boredashell]

Hi all, wanted to post this to inform everyone not to take bull**** you read online from "pickup artists" so seriously. For instance, I was led to believe that Colombia was a really easy place to get laid and Argentina wasn't, but had a completely opposite experience. I found Colombia to be a really weird place for dealing with closed social circles, conservatism, and a lot of the girls who acted interested ended up being hookers. Girls I met on dating apps were dumpster fire, and night game was nearly impossible because everyone sits in circles at these tables and there were always a bunch of guys around the decent girls. Recently I was in Mendoza and Buenos Aires, and it was a thousand times easier for me. I found it more commonplace to cold approach at night and even had girls approach me a couple times. It also seemed to be a more liberal atmosphere and girls would talk more openly about sex. However, most of what I'd read online was how cold, elusive and difficult to lay Argentine women were. This was completely false in my opinion. So just keep that in mind when traveling, and don't rely on any crap some loser writes online. Just my two cents.

 

[corrector]

a lot of the girls who acted interested ended up being hookers

Is it cheap enough to feel like it's free though with the lower prices and exchange?

Hear its very dangerous though. These people target foreigners, drug them and try to rob them. Guys have died visiting those places.

 

[boredashell]

Is it cheap enough to feel like it's free though with the lower prices and exchange?

Hear its very dangerous though. These people target foreigners, drug them and try to rob them. Guys have died visiting those places.

Medellin has shot up a lot in price in the last couple years. This is what a colombian on reddit had to say about it - "The decay has got to the point where the street hookers in Poblado quote prices in dollars"

Poblado is the main tourist neighborhood in Medellin. I think it has seen better days.

 

[corrector]

Medellin has shot up a lot in price in the last couple years. This is what a colombian on reddit had to say about it - "The decay has got to the point where the street hookers in Poblado quote prices in dollars"

Poblado is the main tourist neighborhood in Medellin. I think it has seen better days.

I think physical safety and coming back home alive and in one piece is the greater concern. These women dont respect foreigners and think they are already losers in their home country looking for cheaper poon. Secondly, if you are victimized that way then its a sad chapter. When a wealthy CEO of a.company dies at the hands of one of them hord with a robbery gone bad, then its a bad stain to their rep.

 

[Rainrain]

I am from Medellín. Once known as the murder capital of the world during Pablo Escobar's era when he was one of the richest people globally, Medellín now has a reputation for being a fun and affordable destination for foreigners. However, the reality can differ significantly from its online portrayal.

Recently, many foreigners and ex-pats have moved to Medellín, purchasing property and businesses. The pandemic has led to a rise in prices, with some people referring to this as modern colonialism. The increase in Airbnbs has attracted foreigners who expect to experience Colombian culture, but the reality can be more about people having the intentions of grabbing a HB10 and bringing her back to their country.


A big issue is the exploitation of foreigners, with some poor locals forming their own criminal networks, often led by pimps. They use drugs like scopolamine to rob tourists, sometimes leading to severe harm or overdose. I have put a link below. Additionally, many cam girls from Medellín exploit emotional connections with people abroad to extract money under false pretenses. There’s tons of women from Colombia in these cam sites. Also, foreigners may also have issues with the locals if you start looking at their women, and I have posted a picture before but the women are full of surgeries and ugly tats. Everything is an illusion, and the government likes to keep it that way

Overall, there are better cities to visit, but Medellin is like the Wild West right now.

Medellín authorities to meet embassies and dating apps after five foreigners die

Cluster of cases in seven days follows spate of druggings and robberies of tourists, some of which have ended in death

www.theguardian.com

Texas man sentenced to 42 years in Colombia for murder of DJ girlfriend – Houston Public Media

 

[boredashell]

I am from Medellín. Once known as the murder capital of the world during Pablo Escobar's era when he was one of the richest people globally, Medellín now has a reputation for being a fun and affordable destination for foreigners. However, the reality can differ significantly from its online portrayal.

Recently, many foreigners and ex-pats have moved to Medellín, purchasing property and businesses. The pandemic has led to a rise in prices, with some people referring to this as modern colonialism. The increase in Airbnbs has attracted foreigners who expect to experience Colombian culture, but the reality can be more about people having the intentions of grabbing a HB10 and bringing her back to their country.


A big issue is the exploitation of foreigners, with some poor locals forming their own criminal networks, often led by pimps. They use drugs like scopolamine to rob tourists, sometimes leading to severe harm or overdose. I have put a link below. Additionally, many cam girls from Medellín exploit emotional connections with people abroad to extract money under false pretenses. There’s tons of women from Colombia in these cam sites. Also, foreigners may also have issues with the locals if you start looking at their women, and I have posted a picture before but the women are full of surgeries and ugly tats. Everything is an illusion, and the government likes to keep it that way

Overall, there are better cities to visit, but Medellin is like the Wild West right now.

Medellín authorities to meet embassies and dating apps after five foreigners die

Cluster of cases in seven days follows spate of druggings and robberies of tourists, some of which have ended in death

www.theguardian.com

Texas man sentenced to 42 years in Colombia for murder of DJ girlfriend – Houston Public Media

The last I was in Medellin was this past February and I could hardly recognize the city anymore. It is gentrifying heavily, and locals are annoyed with all of it. When I first visited in 2019, I knew druggings still happened, but you would have to be acting pretty brash and stupid for it to happen. Now they are luring unsuspecting men on the dating apps and it is becoming more aggressive. Unfortunate, because the city is in a beautiful setting but culturally it is going down the drain.

 

[Solomon]

Hi all, wanted to post this to inform everyone not to take bull**** you read online from "pickup artists" so seriously. For instance, I was led to believe that Colombia was a really easy place to get laid and Argentina wasn't, but had a completely opposite experience. I found Colombia to be a really weird place for dealing with closed social circles, conservatism, and a lot of the girls who acted interested ended up being hookers. Girls I met on dating apps were dumpster fire, and night game was nearly impossible because everyone sits in circles at these tables and there were always a bunch of guys around the decent girls. Recently I was in Mendoza and Buenos Aires, and it was a thousand times easier for me. I found it more commonplace to cold approach at night and even had girls approach me a couple times. It also seemed to be a more liberal atmosphere and girls would talk more openly about sex. However, most of what I'd read online was how cold, elusive and difficult to lay Argentine women were. This was completely false in my opinion. So just keep that in mind when traveling, and don't rely on any crap some loser writes online. Just my two cents.

OP you bring up an excellent point that I have mentioned before when it comes to individual success in a location. You can have 2 guys go to Medellin and have 2 different experiences. This is why I take everything with a grain of salt not just with Medellin but places all over the world in general. You got guys on this site saying how easy it is in New York, Florida, ATL, LA for example but than you have guys complaining about how hard those places are for example.

The truth is it's hard to discern at times which info you getting is accurate info from because for example, a black guy going to ATL is going to have different results than a white guy in ATL. A white guy in New York is gonna have different results than an Asian and so forth. It's not just a race thing but also looks, your socioeconomic situation, your charisma etc. These all affect your results.

Another example would be a guy who makes 45K a year complaining about not getting women in his area while a guy making 90K is doing just fine in the same city but because he lives in a nicer place that helps him (something that does matter but often ignored here). Logistics also matter. If you 35+ living in the hood I don't expect you to have great results unless is with hood chicks.

Also when you have guys going overseas bragging about their success but they are omitting the fact they paying for it. IMO this is a major form of false advertising. Take anything online even here with a grain of salt, field test if you have too

 

[Gamisch]

The world is rapidly changing before our eyes. The internet makes borders disappear and we're heading towards a meltingpot of one big general degenerate culture . Even the Muslims "need" gangs like Al qaida to enforce their ways on women. Soon as they let go, their women will become EXACTLY the same as western women.

Recently saw a documentary about crime in Sweden. No blonde viking looking mofos , but rather dudes dressing the same as dudes in the ghettos of Paris, London, Amsterdam, Brussels, ect.

On top of that south American women are THE ABSOLUTE BIGGEST *****s on planet earth. I'd e say that easily 60% ir more of those women are just that, and the major poverty issue only enforces this fact..

I would never ever look for a wife in South America, and that's coming from a South American man. Yes, the entire continent is a cesspool where borders are also basically non existing. From Argentina to Mexico is corrupt as eff.

 

[boredashell]

OP you bring up an excellent point that I have mentioned before when it comes to individual success in a location. You can have 2 guys go to Medellin and have 2 different experiences. This is why I take everything with a grain of salt not just with Medellin but places all over the world in general. You got guys on this site saying how easy it is in New York, Florida, ATL, LA for example but than you have guys complaining about how hard those places are for example.

The truth is it's hard to discern at times which info you getting is accurate info from because for example, a black guy going to ATL is going to have different results than a white guy in ATL. A white guy in New York is gonna have different results than an Asian and so forth. It's not just a race thing but also looks, your socioeconomic situation, your charisma etc. These all affect your results.

Another example would be a guy who makes 45K a year complaining about not getting women in his area while a guy making 90K is doing just fine in the same city but because he lives in a nicer place that helps him (something that does matter but often ignored here). Logistics also matter. If you 35+ living in the hood I don't expect you to have great results unless is with hood chicks.

Also when you have guys going overseas bragging about their success but they are omitting the fact they paying for it. IMO this is a major form of false advertising. Take anything online even here with a grain of salt, field test if you have too

100 percent right about guys not admitting that they do pay for play abroad. False advertising indeed. I don't look for that crap, that's another reason why I was quite disappointed with Medellin. Some of these losers online are just pathetic.

 

[boredashell]

The world is rapidly changing before our eyes. The internet makes borders disappear and we're heading towards a meltingpot of one big general degenerate culture . Even the Muslims "need" gangs like Al qaida to enforce their ways on women. Soon as they let go, their women will become EXACTLY the same as western women.

Recently saw a documentary about crime in Sweden. No blonde viking looking mofos , but rather dudes dressing the same as dudes in the ghettos of Paris, London, Amsterdam, Brussels, ect.

On top of that south American women are THE ABSOLUTE BIGGEST *****s on planet earth. I'd e say that easily 60% ir more of those women are just that, and the major poverty issue only enforces this fact..

I would never ever look for a wife in South America, and that's coming from a South American man. Yes, the entire continent is a cesspool where borders are also basically non existing. From Argentina to Mexico is corrupt as eff.

I'm not looking for wife material, just casual fun without pay to play. In my experience so far, Argentina and Brazil have been far better than Mexico and Colombia. Don't have much experience with other countries down here.

 

[Gamisch]

I'm not looking for wife material, just casual fun without pay to play. In my experience so far, Argentina and Brazil have been far better than Mexico and Colombia. Don't have much experience with other countries down here.

Just be safe bruh.

When I hear argentine or Brasilia it doesn't sound any more safe than Mexico or Colombia to me.

 

[Dr.Suave]

I would never ever look for a wife in South America, and that's coming from a South American man. Yes, the entire continent is a cesspool where borders are also basically non existing. From Argentina to Mexico is corrupt as eff.

You may be on to something speaking in generals. Speaking on particulars, there´s many different "Mexicos" within Mexico. A hot blonde whitexican girl from San Pedro Garza Garcia (The wealthiest city in all of Latin America) is a very different person from an average chiriwilla.

 

[Gamisch]

You may be on to something speaking in generals. Speaking on particulars, there´s many different "Mexicos" within Mexico. A hot blonde whitexican girl from San Pedro Garza Garcia (The wealthiest city in all of Latin America) is a very different person from an average chiriwilla.

Ofcourse. One of the things that make South American women as beautiful as they are is because 99% of them are mixed with blood from all continents.

But two things imo are also true;
If you think with your weenie t want take long before you'll meet a woman who WILL tear you apart mentally, financially and spirituality .

And secondly we can't deny the crime rTe and degeneracy that's everywhere to be found..I wished it was more like Europe, especially when it comes to safety and infrastructure. I would go home crawling.