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Successfully Approaching Women at Work (General Public Workers)

mickdollaz

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I work in hospitals. I want to warn you all against expecting a hot 20 something nurse to stay hot into her 30s or 40s. No sir. That job takes its toll on them.
There are actually quite a few hot 20 something nurses.

But I do agree that that type of lifestyle or workstyle could be a huge source of stress. Aren't they working 12 hour shifts?

The main thing I've noticed among nurses and among medical workers in general is how FAT they are. They're supposed to have some degree of knowledge about HEALTH and yet they are among the fattest demographic that I've seen.
 

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There are actually quite a few hot 20 something nurses.

But I do agree that that type of lifestyle or workstyle could be a huge source of stress. Aren't they working 12 hour shifts?

The main thing I've noticed among nurses and among medical workers in general is how FAT they are. They're supposed to have some degree of knowledge about HEALTH and yet they are among the fattest demographic that I've seen.
That is the issue. They gain weight. The reason why is somewhat understandable. They work 12 hour shifts and have a 30 minute lunch where they don't have enough time to eat healthy. Then there the jealous older ones who make sure to undermine the figure of the hot 25 year old nurse. "Say it ain't so?", you may say. Well, I saw a department with 5 hot young nurses and a few older ones. One of the older ones had bags of candy for everyone.
She made sure that pretty little blond was stuffing fer face with twix candy.
 

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The idea of approaching women while they are at their jobs containing interaction with the general public is a topic that is somewhat contentious among men.

When I think of women who work with the general public, these are the categories that come to mind of women to approach.

Strippers: Almost every man wants to bang a stripper.
Breastaurant Workers: For those not aware, breastaurants are the Hooters and Twin Peaks type restaurants.
Bartenders
Waitresses at Conventional Sit Down Restaurants
Coffee Shop Baristas/Fast Food Workers:
The women who work at independent coffee shops and Starbucks can be attractive. I've never seen a hottie at Dunkin' Donuts. I've also never seen a hottie at McDonald's, Wendy's, and the like. If you are a hottie, you tend to find better employment than McDonald's.
Gym Personal Trainers or other gym staffers: A hot PT is a big turn on.
Real Estate Agents
Hotel and Retail Workers:
This would tend to happen more for higher end retail workers than women who work at Walmart, Target, or a supermarket chain. Nordstrom's workers can be attractive. Hotels often have hotties working as staffers. Las Vegas hotels/casinos are known for this, but it can also in some bigger tourist destinations.
Healthcare Workers: It is a pretty common scenario to find an attractive woman as a nurse or medical assistant at a medical office or hospital. Dental hygienists at the dentist's office are common hotties. Years ago, when my grandmother died, I went to the assisted living facility where she died right after her death to help family members clean out her unit. There was a hot nurse/medical assistant there. My grandmother lived in another state not nearby and I was only in the city for a few days and did not have logistics. I also had a girlfriend at home at the time. There was a bit of a flirty vibe there. My cousin, who was in a declining marriage at the time, and local probably could have tried it. I think guys in their 20s/30s visiting their grandparents in facilities can hit on workers there, or guys in their 40s/early 50s with their declining parents.
Teachers/College Professors/School Staff: I'm not a parent, but I could see a scenario where a single dad might be interested in his kid's teacher or maybe a different teacher in the same school he meets in the hallway for parent-teacher conferences. An even better scenario might be a single uncle meeting his niece's/nephew's teacher at a school play or other elementary school type event, though single uncles rarely would attend such an event. A lot of younger undergrad men will be interested in their older woman college professor, TA, or other instructor.

I've generally believed in not hitting on women at work. It's ideal to meet women who work with the public in settings outside of work. Sometimes, that is not feasible though. If you are at the dentist and spot a hot dental hygienist, you should probably make a move then and there. Besides, you're not in the dentist's office much.

I had the holy grail experience in this happen to me while in college. I was playing pickup basketball and one night a stripper joined us. I got her number, we went out once. I tried to get her to bang. She didn't bang that night, and then eventually flaked. This flaking was special because it happened years before the first iPhone was released. Flaking was not as common in the pre-smartphone era.

I'd like to read some stories about these experiences and I think we can have a really good chat around it.
Ive done women in all of those aforementioned categories except gym trainers. Healthcare workers don’t count for me since I myself am in Healthcare so I’ve never done a nurse while being a patient. Which I’m assuming you’re narrative is in the customer angle

Anyways, it’s possible and fun. Strippers tho cost a lot of money to get them to go out with you. You’ll have to see her atleast a few times in the club or you can expedite it by doing a VIP room so there’s more touching and intimacy. Either way ends up costing.

I banged my Real estate broker. But that cost me the price of the house I bought from her. LOL. So not really cheap.

the other categories I think are fine.
 

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Healthcare workers don’t count for me since I myself am in Healthcare so I’ve never done a nurse while being a patient. Which I’m assuming you’re narrative is in the customer angle
I was referring to being a medical patient and interacting with a nurse, medical assistant, dental hygienist/assistant, doctor, dentist, physical therapist, or psychologist/psychotherapist.

If you've never worked in dentistry, you've likely been to the dentist before and interacted with a hygienist while being a patient.

I banged my Real estate broker. But that cost me the price of the house I bought from her. LOL. So not really cheap.
That is impressive that you banged your real estate agent who was your agent as a homebuyer.
 

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I was referring to being a medical patient and interacting with a nurse, medical assistant, dental hygienist/assistant, doctor, dentist, physical therapist, or psychologist/psychotherapist.

If you've never worked in dentistry, you've likely been to the dentist before and interacted with a hygienist while being a patient.



That is impressive that you banged your real estate agent who was your agent as a homebuyer.
it’s one of those things that is cool as a story to tell. The actual lay itself wasn’t anything too impressive. She was a big marijuana smoker and so her lips tasted like ash when I was kissing her. Kinda a turnoff for me.
 

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I was playing pickup basketball and one night a stripper joined us.
How did that happen?
The stripper was also a college student who was on campus. Many strippers are also college students. There were designated times at the campus gym for pickup basketball games and an attractive female stripper joined one night.
 

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The idea of approaching women while they are at their jobs containing interaction with the general public is a topic that is somewhat contentious among men.

When I think of women who work with the general public, these are the categories that come to mind of women to approach.

Gym Personal Trainers or other gym staffers

I've generally believed in not hitting on women at work. It's ideal to meet women who work with the public in settings outside of work. Sometimes, that is not feasible though.
Story time....

There was a time I went to a fitness class. It was a cycling/spin class. It not a well attended class that day and the few women that attended the class that day weren't that attractive and left before I could approach. Maybe one was worth an approach. That day, I got into a long-ish conversation with the class instructor. She was attractive, high level cute but not super hot. Around a 7 and she might have had a "Queen's 7" attitude (Thanks to @EyeBRollin and @CornbreadFed for teaching me that term). She would have been an impressive get. Most men would be glad to introduce of a woman of her looks level to their friends. . She had a basic White woman look.

The initial post-class conversation was somewhere between 5-10 minutes. It was going well so I asked her out on a drinks date. She said she would like to go but was already in a relationship and she'd be fine going as friends. I told her that I don't do that sort of arrangement and she said she understood. I know my value and that sort of arrangement is unfair to me.

The primary reason I made an attempt on her was because there were no other options that day and she was attractive/interesting.

It was worth the attempt. A lot of men wouldn't have made the attempt. Her claimed relationship may have been fictional. I didn't use the boyfriend destroyer lines on her because it was my gym and there was potential I'd see her again and go to that class. Had I received that excuse in a mall or grocery store, I would have used a boyfriend destroyer line. I have used boyfriend destroyer lines and recommend their use as much as possible.

The actual lay itself wasn’t anything too impressive. She was a big marijuana smoker and so her lips tasted like ash when I was kissing her. Kinda a turnoff for me.
That doesn't sound like an impressive lay. I can identify with why you felt turned off. Ash tasting lips sound bad.
 
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