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*Sigh* Everyday, I walk to and from class. I'll go to the SUB and play some pool. Hell, I'll even walk around campus at times just to get out. Oh, and there are the extremely rare occasions I'll go to the library. What do I see? The campus...Along with some girls. What else do I see? The fact that they aren't perfect, they aren't anywhere near perfect, but, they are cool. I also see single guys and hear them say "man, she's perfect...Why can't I talk to her?"

DUH! You think she's perfect? Guess what? She's as perfect as you. For you people that put yourself up in the sky, guess what? YOU SUCK TOO! No one is better then anyone else. If you look for the perfect person, you'll never find them. You'll be left dreaming about the perfect person while your hands become the "perfect jacker." Hell, you could have a picture of the perfect girl in your mind, and you see her walking down the street or something. You talk to her, maybe even date her. Then you ditch her. Why? She wasn't perfect. Maybe she was a vegatarian. Maybe she dyed her hair to something different. Maybe her place wasn't 100% spotless.

*SMACK!* Repeat that sound over and over. You'll never be hearing that sound unless it's your roommate, neighbor, or favorite porn tape. If you aren't getting any girls, or keep rejecting them, check your standards. The guys I know that have the girls don't care if they are perfect. If they are happy with them, or they get turned on by them, they go after them. I recently started to realize this.

I was walking the other day and thought "wow, that girls not bad...But she's not perfect." About that time, I saw another girl that I had been going after before and went "psh, why go after her, she's not perfect." Thing was, I had thought she was earlier. I then realized she wasn't. As soon as I though that, my mind went back to the girl I saw pass by first. My reaction? "She may not be perfect, but she's not bad." Guess what? Next time I see her, I'm talking to her and getting either a number, date, pvssy, or rejected. Why is this so big? I will get out there and do something a lot of you won't do because of one thing...

SHE'S NOT PERFECT.

Get the whole "I need a perfect women" out of your head, or you'll never get head.
 

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What's wrong with looking at porn?
 

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MOVED TO ANTYHING ELSE.



oops, thats not my cue.

anyways.



good post.

alot of girls only seem perfect until you actually get to know them.
 

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Good post.

Your points are very true. I used to always use " She's not perfect" as an excuse for not approaching particular women. I had an image in my head of what I thought was the 'perfect' woman, but I've realised she doesn't exist.

LRB
 

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Damn, he finally said it...I have to give it to ya' for a very good post/tip. C/K.

I mean, I really had the idea of perfection and I wanted to make sure everything in life was perfect before I tried getting into a relationship. But I can see now that I may have missed some good opportunities because I wanted things my way.
 

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This is an excellent point kid, and i would recommend for everyone , including myself to realize this as soon as possible. Especially if u are a virgin, it will be even tougher to realize this, becuase you still hope for that "perfect" first time.


You have to realize something guys.. while you wait for this perfection, you are dying each single day. You are getting to the end, while waiting for something that might not exist.

If u wanna know what your nature has to say about perfect/not perfect girls, find an average girl, invite her over once you are drunk, and watch the sparks fly.
 

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No chick is universally perfect. No guy eather. But there are some chicks that are just "perfect" for you. That doesn't mean they are perfect. It means they are at a very high % of compatability with you even though sometimes they do sh!t that pisses you off ( They are flaky, they wash the dishes a certain way....).

So really, a girl is perfect to a certain guy and not to another. Some might refer to this as love. The saying goes that to be in love is to see an imperfect person perfectly.

Lik
 

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Originally posted by LikRetsam
So really, a girl is perfect to a certain guy and not to another. Some might refer to this as love. The saying goes that to be in love is to see an imperfect person perfectly.

Lik
That is the most clever and profound thing I heard today. Thanks.
 

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Dam eternal, your right for once!
 

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damn you eternal!!

you're fvckin right. you'll just be lying to yourself and your d!ck if u keep thinking this.

my AFC friends have never had gf's or even been on dates, and they've never had female friends either. i pity them as all they look for are hb10's on the street. too damn picky.
 

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Originally posted by Devestator
What's wrong with looking at porn?
nothing- its great. continue jacking off.
 

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wow what a great post. yeah your right no one is perfect. very good. 5 stars for you.
 

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ScrewIt said:
damn you eternal!!

you're fvckin right. you'll just be lying to yourself and your d!ck if u keep thinking this.

my AFC friends have never had gf's or even been on dates, and they've never had female friends either. i pity them as all they look for are hb10's on the street. too damn picky.
oh man that's me. time for a reality change
 

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I really like what you named this topic dude, and besides is their really perfection in girls? I can think of atleast one minor thing I would change to even the hottest of girls(Bigger chest for example)
 

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Yeah every meal can't be a banquet but you got to eat.

I've had a lot of women, usually the best around, including models who I would show you the photo of and you would rate a 10. None of them are 'perfect.'

They only become perfect when you fall in love with them. This may not work on fuglies, I've never tried.
 

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bump
 

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I look for HB10s on the street... but also 9s 8s and 7s... And anybody else I feel attracted to...
 
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