Look at this. Guys in their late 20's and early 30's are going after 30+ or even 40+ women and are not even getting laid. I can understand pursuing females in this age range if you are 50+ or 60+, but not when you are 25 to 35. You should be able to date women 20 to 25. You are doing yourself a disservice by going after women who are this old. If these are the only women who will date you you need to seriously improve your appearance.
https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/cougars.254023/#post-2588883
https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/kind-of-in-a-dating-slump.253919/
https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/so-i-found-the-female-version-of-me.254026/
Very true! Many men (young men especially) are under the impression that female attraction works the same way as male attraction.
Since men are attracted to tight bodies, youthful, wrinkle free glowing skin; men think women want the same. Wrong! While women do care about looks; they are more attracted to a man's confidence, financial status and social status.
Men in their early 20's are youthful, but are usually lacking in the above three categories.
My point? A Physically fit 35 year old man is more attractive to a young woman (early to mid 20s) than a man her own age. Yes, the younger man has a more youthful appearance, but the 35 year old looks and acts more like a man.
Just look at a young George Clooney or Ben Affleck. Even as a man, I can say both look more manly and attractive now than they did when they were 25 years ago.
Guys in their late 20s and early 30s, should be chasing women early to mid 20s, because they can get them!
Im 41, hooked up with a woman 13 years my junior last year and one 20 years my junior this year.
I do not want to date women my own age.
Why do that when I can get a woman, 5, 10 and even 15 years younger!