Boodrow
Don Juan
After reading this forum for awhile, I've seen alot of advice on how to get girls, but not really anything on keeping them. I want to go ahead and give my two cents on a few situations that arise from time to time in a commited relationship.
#1. The Magic Phrase
Ever have a situation where you're significant other is not happy about something you're doing, or have done? There is a magical phrase that you can utter to alleviate her troubles and still allow you to stay on top.
Example: You're working on your car, or watching tv, or playing Quake, etc.. The girl comes to you and expresses her need for attention, i.e. "You're not spending any time with me!" *pout*
Now at this time most guys do either one of two things.
1. They concede and spend time with their women. SUPPLICATION
2. They tell the girl, in no uncertain terms, no way in hell. OVERBEARING
There is a 3rd answer that will keep you out of the doghouse, and still allow you to do what you want.
Your answer: "Honey, you have every right to feel to way you do about this, but I'm stil going to do what I'm doing.".
This answer is twofold. It tells the woman that you validate her feelings (which is VERY important to a woman), but you still show backbone. You say no, but as a man, not a hurt child. It's worked like a charm for me. Let me know what you guys think!
#1. The Magic Phrase
Ever have a situation where you're significant other is not happy about something you're doing, or have done? There is a magical phrase that you can utter to alleviate her troubles and still allow you to stay on top.
Example: You're working on your car, or watching tv, or playing Quake, etc.. The girl comes to you and expresses her need for attention, i.e. "You're not spending any time with me!" *pout*
Now at this time most guys do either one of two things.
1. They concede and spend time with their women. SUPPLICATION
2. They tell the girl, in no uncertain terms, no way in hell. OVERBEARING
There is a 3rd answer that will keep you out of the doghouse, and still allow you to do what you want.
Your answer: "Honey, you have every right to feel to way you do about this, but I'm stil going to do what I'm doing.".
This answer is twofold. It tells the woman that you validate her feelings (which is VERY important to a woman), but you still show backbone. You say no, but as a man, not a hurt child. It's worked like a charm for me. Let me know what you guys think!