Master Don Juan
- Nov 2, 2016
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Agreed. The whole concept of marriage seems a bit silly now, but for those that value that permanence it is absolutely essential. Not sure I will ever get married again, not out of spite, but primarily because it seems pointless. You can get everything from an LTR, with a reduced chance of your partner changing on you post marriage. However, I do believe most of these enormous changes in partners after marriage can be mitigated with a strong frame.Until the divorce laws change, I know many men who will not not marry or cohab with a woman w/o a cohab agreement signed with two lawyers present and a videographer. Only one word is to blame. Feminism. Congrats to all the die hard feminists. You've destroyed many female (and male) lives, children's lives, the family unit and brought in the hookup/std culture.
It sucks when everything is fine w/o a marriage cert. As soon as that is achieved, I still find it amazing on how women change. I know so many men that are so fvcked it isn't even funny. One brother, had two kids with a wife who was a lawyer. As soon as the kids were born, she cheated on him and then filed for divorce. He stupidly married again, and had two other kids with a wife who is a SAHM. He works 6 days a week and is the sole bread winner for both families. He's 47. I'd be amazed if he makes it to 50. Damn shame. He's a good guy.
Your friend sounds like a typical "nice guy", not a good guy.