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This site should be the ultimate council for masculine and intelligence men where they congregate , consult and discussed. This site is an epitome of that and it should be compulsory to all men if they seek meaning and navigate life and relationship with ease. This are no other site like this anywhere, for those who knew me and had given their great wisdom knowing or unknowingly, May god blessed you and thrive to greatness!!


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This site should be the ultimate council for masculine and intelligence men where they congregate , consult and discussed. This site is an epitome of that and it should be compulsory to all men if they seek meaning and navigate life and relationship with ease. This are no other site like this anywhere, for those who knew me and had given their great wisdom knowing or unknowingly, May god blessed you and thrive to greatness!!


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It's still great -- but it used to be better. Getting overrun with a lot of complaining/whining/black-pill recently in the past 6-8 months especially. If you try to offer advice it is immediately shot down.

Most of us came here due to bad experiences with women (whether in dating or being dumped, etc.) so a lot of it is understandable to an extent. But most of came here to get better with women. A lot of recent posters seem to have come here to just bit*h about how horrible they are and not want to learn how to be better. Also, even some older posters seem to have turned the corner in a bad way and now just want to complain. Frustrating.
 

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It's still great -- but it used to be better. Getting overrun with a lot of complaining/whining/black-pill recently in the past 6-8 months especially. If you try to offer advice it is immediately shot down.

Most of us came here due to bad experiences with women (whether in dating or being dumped, etc.) so a lot of it is understandable to an extent. But most of came here to get better with women. A lot of recent posters seem to have come here to just bit*h about how horrible they are and not want to learn how to be better. Also, even some older posters seem to have turned the corner in a bad way and now just want to complain. Frustrating.
Reddit is still far worse, and so is LoveShack and any other I had been around. They are all dominated and "trolled" by Blue Pill/Purple Pill, effeminate White Knights, Male Feminists, and SIMPs.
 

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A lot of recent posters seem to have come here to just bit*h about how horrible they are and not want to learn how to be better. Also, even some older posters seem to have turned the corner in a bad way and now just want to complain. Frustrating.
It is unfortunate. I do remember someone saying taking the red pill is equal to having to go through a grieving process. In fact, I don't remember where I saw it, was it here I don't know, but the stages of taking the red pill (like the grieving process)

First one being anger. You have to come to terms with how your expectations of women are not in tune with the reality of how they are. There is a cognitive dissonance. As you know with cognitive dissonance......while the mind is in the middle of trying to make a paradigm shift.....there is nothing but pain and discomfort. If we want the new paradigm to take place we must accept the pain period...

of course pain is not nice so many will stay exactly there: between the old paradigm and the new paradigm.....pain, discomfort, hurt.....anger....

"it shouldn't be like this"
"women should be the way I want them to be"

until acceptance and adaptation arrives.......expect pain and anger.

I think it was Tom Torero who made a great analogy before (a warning). getting angry with women for how they are is like looking up to the sky and getting angry with birds for being birds. "bastards flying over me, they are out to get me"

To be good with women, you have to not only accept them but "love" them for the way they are. A man who loves women for the way they are is a man who is successful with women.

You cannot hate women for not being the way you want them to be. This is delusion.

If we were all a little more skillful, we would address each post from where in the spectrum of red pill grief the poster is coming from....
and perhaps encourage the stages of acceptance and adaptation. Instead of these stupid labels as "black pill" or "incel" or whatver...

If we could do that.....this site would make another shift.
 

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The quality of posters is declining and has been for several years , i believe the hierarchy needs to be improved it should not be so simple to achieve master don juan status by simply posting enough messages

It would also be nice if there some kind of other incentive for experienced and influential users to stay here and properly coach the newer members

i Don't know who owns this forum but in my opinion the brand could be expanded and monetised a lot better than it currently is
 

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i Don't know who owns this forum but in my opinion the brand could be expanded and monetised a lot better than it currently is
It has changed hands at least once since its inception, and I think it was shut down for a period and then brought back to life. That is how I heard Tomassi describe it. He did not go into more detail than that when I was listening.
 

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This forum has always been:

- Men on the spectrum who can’t fathom social cues. For example, guys posting escorts they’ve hired as proof of prowess and then not really understanding why it doesn’t count!

- Incels who want to change. Some meet success, most just rage at the advice, tell anyone who isn’t committed to the idea that only the top 0.001% of men have the facial genetics to succeed are “chads”

- Occasional minorities wandering in asking how to score white chicks.

- Narcissts who scan read every post and construct some perceived flaw and then harshly condemn, or subtly undermine. Asking for advice can be very dangerous with these around. Their post will always end with “you’re showing clear beta traits. I’ve tried to help you. There is nothing to be done with you” etc

- regular guys like me who came here to just get a woman or just understand it better.

- some decent guys who know their shyt and like to give advice.

I’m long out the game and married. Why do I come back? It’s one of the only places on the internet which isn’t modded by a gang of raging, angry extreme left wingers. It’s one of the places you can discuss male related issues without someone sticking their oar in.
 

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I’m long out the game and married. Why do I come back? It’s one of the only places on the internet which isn’t modded by a gang of raging, angry extreme left wingers. It’s one of the places you can discuss male related issues without someone sticking their oar in.
Although not married,...this pretty much describes my perspective as well. I don't remember the last time I ever asked for advice on any site or felt I needed to,...but this is a good place to talk about it as a general subject and the social things surrounding it.
 

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The quality of posters is declining and has been for several years , i believe the hierarchy needs to be improved it should not be so simple to achieve master don juan status by simply posting enough messages

It would also be nice if there some kind of other incentive for experienced and influential users to stay here and properly coach the newer members

i Don't know who owns this forum but in my opinion the brand could be expanded and monetised a lot better than it currently is
Well, Incels are literally a terrorist group now apparently, so how hard would it be for this site to be given the designation of Incel community, how many posts need to sent out, like seriously we have enough Black Pill bull**** here already to probably glean the designation if people cared enough or if enough eyes hit the site
 

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Reddit is still far worse, and so is LoveShack and any other I had been around. They are all dominated and "trolled" by Blue Pill/Purple Pill, effeminate White Knights, Male Feminists, and SIMPs.
Also bodybuilding forum.. Big amount of retards
 

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Also bodybuilding forum.. Big amount of retards
Yea, and even the TRP groups are caught up in that. Did you ever watch that animated movie "UP". It was this house floating around with balloons with an old man and a kid. There was a talking dog. The dog would be in mid-sentence and suddenly jerk its head one way, say, "Squirrel!" and stare off into the distence for a few seconds. Then it would go back into the conversation where it left off as if nothing happended. Well just imagine the same thing with the guys you communicate with in the TRP groups except they say, "LIFT!",...stare off into the distance,...then go back into the conversation where they left off. They seem to think that only a guy who is "jacked" will ever get a date. Well, I have news for them. The number of men in the population like that are extremely few. Most people are out of shape and unhealthy,...yet,...somehow, some way, there seem to be people out there forming couples and making babies. Now I am not against being fit, healthy,...even "jacked",...but knock off the stupid obsession with it.
 

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Totally agree!

I never found anywhere where I've learned so much as here.

It gave me a knowledge and maturity that I will be forever glad to that and to everyone who helped me! And I wish to contribute to other guys here as well.

Here is the place that we truly learn how to become a better man/human.
 

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I really wish this forum was more popular, Men need the advice given on here.
 
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