What is the difference between sarcasm and a neg-hit? I think sarcasm is bad, but is related to a neg-hit. (I have a sarcastic sense of humor, and I’m trying to change that.) If you study Family Relations, they all say to avoid the use of sarcasm. It only hurts relationships long term. How can you make sure that your neg-hit is not just another sarcastic remark that nobody appreciates. What do you do if the girl really is offended at the neg-hit?
I really like your description of what goes through women's heads when you deliver a perfect neg-hit. I noticed that too. First shock, then exasperation, then respect/desire for me. Ah ha ha ha!
Also, I'd like to point out I noticed a lot of newbies seem to have trouble finding opportunities to use neg hits, but I've noticed if you're observant, every conversation with any woman offers TONS of opportunities for neg hits. Especially the really hot, younger girls who don't have the mental capacity to see it coming. Just listen to what she says and observe her and you'll see tons of flaws in even the hottest woman--which becomes fodder for your neg-hits.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA. Are we sure these 2 aren't married or related in some way?
I bow to you, Sir_Chancealot for such a an excellent coverage. Jousting tips for the 21st century.
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Originally posted by KCFlyer: Good post Sir_Chancealot.
What is the difference between sarcasm and a neg-hit? I think sarcasm is bad, but is related to a neg-hit. (I have a sarcastic sense of humor, and I’m trying to change that.) If you study Family Relations, they all say to avoid the use of sarcasm. It only hurts relationships long term. How can you make sure that your neg-hit is not just another sarcastic remark that nobody appreciates. What do you do if the girl really is offended at the neg-hit?
I too can be VERY sarcastic (just ask the old timers around here); however, you have to learn to temper the sarcasm with humor. You can deliver the sarcasm, just do it with a smile and a laugh, and try not to be TOO sharp in your delivery.
Hell I belong to about 5 other forums that aren't affiliated to SoSuave, and I figure if I keep *****ing about Wyldfire on here I can get banned from every other forum too!!!
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Another incredible post Chance! Just what I needed. And, definitely what newbies need. Way to go!
This was a well thought-out, eloquent post. You gave great information, explanations, and examples. This post could help anyone, including raw beginners, become great at neg-hits. Keep it up.
I loved your post!!!! Definately helps break the ice with them snobby bitc*es. I tried a few and i must admit they really work. Thanks man... You just helped me improve my DJ Skills.