So what?Why does this matter? She is either in, or she is out. If she initially is in and for some reason later she decides that isnt for her, so what? Replace her with another one, or keep seeing the other ones you are already seeing.
I am pragmatic. Not all of us look at women as disposable toilets. There is a level of prestige that comes with being a family man as opposed to a 60 year old creep. Can’t just “spin plates” until death.