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What's a TRO?Prime_Beef said:You had a woman with all those issues and you have not filed a report and gotten a TRO?
(Never mind you selected this woman in the first place. Her kids will turn out charming, I'm sure)
Probably Temporary restraining order. ZTIME you need to be very careful your future could be in grave danger either legally, financially, physically or all three. Do not take this lightly, ive been in a situation like this before. You need to consider also what she may be telling the new guy. There are alot of white knights around, she could be telling him that you were abusive and he might try to "defend her honor". He could call a bunch of his buddies to come help him beat the living sh11t out of you.ZTIME said:What's a TRO?
I'm getting the point. I guess in my inexperienced mind I just never thought of things this way. Out of every relationship I've had, I would have never thought of things like these happening from an ex. I've never experienced it before.SAYNO said:Probably Temporary restraining order. ZTIME you need to be very careful your future could be in grave danger either legally, financially, physically or all three. Do not take this lightly, ive been in a situation like this before. You need to consider also what she may be telling the new guy. There are alot of white knights around, she could be telling him that you were abusive and he might try to "defend her honor". He could call a bunch of his buddies to come help him beat the living sh11t out of you.
The reason why im telling you this is because it almost happened to me, but fortunately for me my brothers in law enforcement. I wont go into all the details but he saved me from getting jumped. My ex had called some of her goon friends of hers and they were laying in wait around my house. She was mad that I threw her ass out because I found out that she was cheating so she gave a guy some puzzie to come and pay me back for dropping her. If you dont listen and face the facts its over dont try to presumme what she will and wont do. She is a strsnger to you now and she wants to see you hurt and destroyed, she will eventually try to black mail you.. you have been warned!
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I'm choosing to not get involved whether it's good or bad. I'm walking away from the whole situation. If she looses her children it will be based on her actions. I can't send any messages through lawyers or police. I will protect my household and myself. My posts are for all of you and for me to get rid of any guilt or horrible feelings. I will be completely transparent throughout this whole process so as time goes by maybe others reading this will get clarity for there own issues. It's day 18 of NC. I promise to read every post written here and to find my path. Thank you for the help and words of wisdom.Prime_Beef said:Mister,
Whatever happens tobthose kids is going to happen whether you are involved or not. If the lawyer will tell her to cool it, you are disappearing or else, you might have leverage. Doubt it tho. Otherwise my best advice was given. If what you do blows her custody case, then she's not the sort who deserves custody, and further, will assuredly lose it in the near future after you put your resources into it.
I stopped reading at this point. The fact that you would even contemplate (let alone follow through with) doing something like that shows a complete lack of common sense. On a list of the dumbest things a man could do, this ranks only one spot below dousing your testicles with gasoline and setting them on fire.ZTIME said:After the first four months of us dating, I allowed this girl to move into my house. Here's the kicker', she has 3 children which she had part time custody. (3 days a week). I accepted it as I truly felt that she was "The One".
Thanks, advice came a little late but next time I'll know better.Bokanovsky said:I stopped reading at this point. The fact that you would even contemplate (let alone follow through with) doing something like that shows a complete lack of common sense. On a list of the dumbest things a man could do, this ranks only one spot below dousing your testicles with gasoline and setting them on fire.
So what's the update on the plan going forward? I mean you keep saying you are going through a "learning experience," etc., but you are 43? How is it that you can be 43 and not know the basics of dealing with women, legal arrangements, restraining orders, etc.?
I don't mean to sound harsh, but you are too old to be sitting up here talking about all of this touchy feely stuff. Relationships GO BAD, sometimes you play a part in it and sometimes you don't. In this case, you were involved with a woman that you shouldn't have been involved in, so you are partially responsible for all of this in combination with the woman taking up the other percentage of fault.
You are 43, you are a good man, you aren't 22. Go date another chick, learn from the shyt you went through here, FILE A POLICE REPORT and a Restraining Order on the chick....and move on with your life dude.
Stop all of this emotional shyt, you have money, you have assets, you have as they say "High Sexual Market Value." Go replace this chick.....
Put away your credit card.
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Ohh, no. I said she moved on to someone she thinks can provide more than me. Not financially, of that I'm sure.vinkoch said:I'm confused. you said she moved on to someone who can provide more than you. You sound like you're doing very well financially. How could she get better than you? are this many men that gullible?
That's funny, the implications of regret are high. I started posting this stuff just to remember what I went through to get over this stuff!vinkoch said:After 9 weeks of knowing him she burns you. Lol. I hope you wash your hands of this woman if she comes back trying to be on good terms with you if this new relationship blows up in her face.