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She wants a second public date before coming to my place.

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Her: “Can we talk?“

You: “about?”

If she ignores, either cut completely or reply, “That’s what I thought” ;)

This is one time where an emoji is useful. I almost never use them, but in this case it clearly conveys that you’re on to her little game and that it doesn’t matter to you.

This is probably what I would do so I could teach her about consequences from a detached and amused position.
 

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Because, unlike us, they naturally have abundant mindset thanks to having nearly unlimited options - on a daily basis.
Yes! IF you watch any R&B tune from the 90s, or listen to any SOS Band tune from the 80s, it is the woman who acts like the stalker in scarcity mindset.

However a womans modern Abundance mindset is fake its not real, A social media facade. that slaps her in the face much later on
 

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good luck with what you do, but remember she is a Jedi at this, and will Re-beta you up very fast.

I can assure you she is just checking she can go 3 weeks without speaking to you, and you still want her.

I find it amazing that we as Men allow this behaviour,if this was a business deal she would have been ghosted the moment she played up on the 2nd meet
 

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If she's smart then that's quite transparent. Girls constantly tell me they are busy and I know it's bullsh!t. If you're truly busy, then why respond?

I think she needs to offer a bit more than "We need to talk". That's an entitled princess message.
Agreed. The "can we talk" is about 2 things:

1. Will he respond.....meaning is he still on the hook
2. To see if he will not only respond, but jump at the chance.

Its a gauge of his interest. Most certainly a test. Had she had a sincere apology, he would have gotten it already.

Just another mediocre yet entitled little bytch that deserves no more than crickets.......
 

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Agreed. The "can we talk" is about 2 things:

1. Will he respond.....meaning is he still on the hook
2. To see if he will not only respond, but jump at the chance.

Its a gauge of his interest. Most certainly a test. Had she had a sincere apology, he would have gotten it already.

Just another mediocre yet entitled little bytch that deserves no more than crickets.......
Great point here dude. Well I haven't responded yet and don't plan on it!
 

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This. Cooking for a girl that you haven't banged yet is way too much investment. It just makes you look needy and low value in her eyes. Same rules apply for taking a girl to a restaurant.

Eating with a girl is a girlfriend privilege. She gets a coffee or a drink max pre-bang.
No...you don't cook for her, you cook with her. Major difference.
 

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No...you don't cook for her, you cook with her. Major difference.
That I can agree with. She cooks in an apron and a thong, and you stand behind her and slap her ass and tell her to make Daddy a delicious dinner or she's getting punished.
 

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That I can agree with. She cooks in an apron and a thong, and you stand behind her and slap her ass and tell her to make Daddy a delicious dinner or she's getting punished.
Haha...I usually put them on chop duty
 
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