- Oct 7, 2017
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I am in an interesting situation. My ex girlfriend (we cohabitated) moved out about two months ago. I do not doubt that she loves me. I love her. So, what is the problem? The I'm "I'm not in love with her" situation. While we were together, she helped me a lot. But, when my 13 year old daughter moved home to be with me, my ex withdrew. She would go to the bedroom for hours and not come out or talk. She would get upset if I had to go to my daughter's school and so on, and so forth. Finally, she got mad one morning and left. She just recently told me that she misses me. I did not respond that I miss her. I think that to do so would have been unfair to her. I care about what happens to her. But, we can not be together. There are other issues of incompatibility, as well. How can I reinforce to hwe that I care. But, I do not want her in my life romantically. Any suggestions?