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Sex is not important

JohnyTheArrow

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Sex is not important

If it would you would die without it.Try not to eat, try not to sleep, try no to drink ? If sex would have so much importance nature would make it important.Brushing teeth is more important than sex, it has instant influence on our health - sex ? You can live decades without it.Whole life.

First, your desire for sex is inflated.Most people are un****able.Tool old, too young, too fat, too ugly.Even girls with pretty faces can have no butt or ugly tits.Yet, you are bombared every day with images of perfect looking bodies which inflate you desire for sex. Images of real bodies without makeup and fancy clothing which sexy up a girl, would deflate your desire.
Second, sex is a tool of control.Regime use sex to distract you from things like actually matter, women use it control your behaviour and acquire resources.
Third,sex is cheap,its opium for the masses,cool things like yachts or fast cars cost real money, sex is cheap and available.It's nothing special.
It's like TV and computer games.And it gets boring sometimes if do it over and over with same person.

Sex is not important.You don't want to admit, dont you ? But you should.It's gives you leverage in dealing with women.How she can control you if you consider the drug as pleasant,as something you want but something you can survive without ? She can not .Get a GF,do sex a lot with her and then STOP.Reject sex with her.She will start to ask questions and most probably she will try to even rape you.Why so ? Because she doesn't want to loose leverage over you.You must be hooked to comply.

Sex is lovely,pleasant and amazing experience but by creating mantra you want it but don't need it to live you will become more powerful.You will not bend.
By controling your uncontrolable desire you become more attractive and more sexy.

“Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about power.”
Oscar Wilde


Between man and woman,the one who has most power and thus is most sexy, is the person willing to walk away.
 

amazingswayze

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yeah dude but im a virgin and my mind is gonna be pretty preoccupied until i do the dirty deed. im wasting a lot of time with my precious life but my desires tell me to pursue girls and my rational brain says another. not sure things will be too different once i have sex but it will be a weight off my shoulders. probably because of the pressure im putting on myself. i cant help it.
 

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Good post. One must learn to control his urges.
 

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amazingswayze said:
yeah dude but im a virgin and my mind is gonna be pretty preoccupied until i do the dirty deed. im wasting a lot of time with my precious life but my desires tell me to pursue girls and my rational brain says another. not sure things will be too different once i have sex but it will be a weight off my shoulders. probably because of the pressure im putting on myself. i cant help it.
I would just find a slvt or buy a escort so you can get it over with. I lost mine to 19 yr old slvt when I was 17. Three of my boys had already hit it and one of them got her to bang me. Since it was my first time, I didn't care. After that I was more laid back and didn't have to worry about losing my virginitiy. Gaming on girls seemed easier too.
 

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Young OG said:
I would just find a slvt or buy a escort so you can get it over with. I lost mine to 19 yr old slvt when I was 17. Three of my boys had already hit it and one of them got her to bang me. Since it was my first time, I didn't care. After that I was more laid back and didn't have to worry about losing my virginitiy. Gaming on girls seemed easier too.
This is great advice. Sometimes if you are having a lot of bad luck, this is all you need to do. Get it and get it from somewhere. It will settle you down and the rest will seem easier.
 

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amazingswayze said:
yeah dude but im a virgin and my mind is gonna be pretty preoccupied until i do the dirty deed. im wasting a lot of time with my precious life but my desires tell me to pursue girls and my rational brain says another. not sure things will be too different once i have sex but it will be a weight off my shoulders. probably because of the pressure im putting on myself. i cant help it.
There's the rub. But let me tell you - I'm 39, and I've had plenty of sex with many girls. I continue to enjoy it BUT the more I have it, the more I know I can get it easily, and the less of a priority it becomes to me. My current girl is 22 and she's always saying "come over" and sometimes I do, sometimes I don't. Sometimes, believe it or not, I'd rather go home and be alone and flip on Turner Classic Movies. When I am having sex sometimes it's a slow, relaxing affair. When I was younger it was often wham, bam, thank you ma'am because I wasn't sure when I'd be getting my rocks off next.

So you're young and eager, that makes sense. Try to assume the mantle of someone with experience and patience. Women look at me and can sense I have experience with women, and that's half the battle won right there. Internalize and project success and confidence.
 

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Good post, very true.

Most people are not as sexual. as me i guess. but for me the desire to phuck most girls i see is pretty overwhelming, even at 29! No matter how much sex i have, i want it just the same, as much as when i was a teenager. Ive been working very hard on setting this desire aside but for me personally that is one helluva difficult thing to do. I just Have to Have them :( even the not so good looking ones, if i find something sexy about them (attitude, body part, taken, etc), its over.

Obviously i have some deeper inner issues to sort out haha, wish I could pinpoint them.
 

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samspade said:
My current girl is 22 and she's always saying "come over" and sometimes I do, sometimes I don't. Sometimes, believe it or not, I'd rather go home and be alone and flip on Turner Classic Movies.

Women look at me and can sense I have experience with women, and that's half the battle won right there.
Come on bro, you are laying it on a little thick here...:trouble:
 

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Alexandar said:
Good post, very true.

Most people are not as sexual. as me i guess. but for me the desire to phuck most girls i see is pretty overwhelming, even at 29! No matter how much sex i have, i want it just the same, as much as when i was a teenager. Ive been working very hard on setting this desire aside but for me personally that is one helluva difficult thing to do. I just Have to Have them :( even the not so good looking ones, if i find something sexy about them (attitude, body part, taken, etc), its over.

Obviously i have some deeper inner issues to sort out haha, wish I could pinpoint them.
No, you want that desire and lust! Just to have the discipline to not go dropping trou for any old h03... That desire and lust ties to your internal motivation, drive and testosterone levels.

Never let any particular one lady gatekeep and reduce this huge drive for you. It can be done. Theres an article about destroying a males sex drive and sexuality written back in 1894 and probably things before this. It's all part of you being a passionate man full of desire.
 

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Trump said:
Come on bro, you are laying it on a little thick here...:trouble:
He's right though. His cup runneth over. He's full of the women "anointing" him with pleasures and vagina. He hasn't had a lack in a very long time, and it all registers in his persona and his swagger. It's attractive to women. This is probably one of the very best things we can do for ourselves as a DJ.
 

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Ruler said:
You see, THIS is why guys should lose it no later than 16 or 17.

Because when they reach maturity, they want to improve themselves which is great! But then they wonder "What is pvssy really like? Will I actually live to the day when I shove my c0ck inside?" (that's what I used to think).

Anyways, don't worry, sex is really good but your hand isnt bad either. I know, I know... "No fap Ruler!" Masturbating once a week is just fine people. Especially as a teenager.

Just hook up with a sloot and get it in. Wrap it up though man. Then you don't need to worry about it anymore. Although, once you have sex your desire to get it again after a month of not having it goes really high. Always works for me though, because I can always get it again.
I agree. When I was a virgin, I always did wonder what it was like, but it didn't cripple me from improving myself beforehand. Now it's just, eh whatever. Something to do on the weekend.
 
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