Hello Friend,

If this is your first visit to SoSuave, I would advise you to START HERE.

It will be the most efficient use of your time.

And you will learn everything you need to know to become a huge success with women.

Thank you for visiting and have a great day!

Sex almost....but not quite

Wannabe_DonJuan

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 6, 2001
Messages
56
Reaction score
0
Location
England
Hi,

I'm posting here because I tire of the silly teenage comments on the other boards. Here is my situation:

Sex - almost....but not quite
So, the mood was set nice, on our 5th date, I want to make love to her.

Over at my place, big makeout session, we get down to business. taking it slow, both topless and in pants, so far we've both really been enjoying it, just the pants to go, as taking off her pants she tells me she is split between doing it, or waiting till later (only known each other 3 weeks). (She has had a few boyfriends before so not inexperienced).

I tell her it is cool, I agree also, we wait until both ready. We sleep together embraced body to body, whispering sweet nothings, very nice, continues in morning. Nice, sensual, sensitive.....

What is best way to progress from here then, I actually think the actions that happened were for the better, we will be even more relaxed and greater desire next time round.

Do I try the next time round, or wait 2 weeks or so?

Dunno if any of you DJs have been in the situation of sex - almost, but not quite. How did you handle it? Is there anything I can do to make her feel more comfortable?
 

Warning!

Do not subscribe to The SoSuave Newsletter unless you are already a chick magnet!

The information in each issue is too powerful for most guys to handle. If you are an ordinary guy, it is not for you. It is meant for the elite few – not the unwashed masses.

image

If you think you can handle it...

If you already have girls calling you at all hours of the day and night, showing up at your door, throwing themselves at you everywhere you go...

Then sign up below.

But if you're just an average Joe, an ordinary guy, no one special – and wish to continue being so – then skip this. It's too much power for you.

ogre

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 15, 2004
Messages
211
Reaction score
0
you're doing fine, just fine. a little more intimacy with each date. so maybe you'll have sex on the next date or soon after. don't worry be patient. no rush. have fun. I see nothing wrong here. let her go at her own pace, before you know it she will screwing you from every position imaginable. God I wish I was so lucky....
 

Maverick001

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 7, 2004
Messages
324
Reaction score
1
Location
SOL III/Terra
What is best way to progress from here then, I actually think the actions that happened were for the better, we will be even more relaxed and greater desire next time round.
Wannabe_DonJuan,

The best way to progress from here is to progress from here. That'll be $250.00 please. :p

Seriously, move things along the next time you see this girl and keep cranking her up. Remember, 2 steps forward and 1 step back.

It sounds like you've got an idea and/or some understanding about building up anticipation. Keep doing that. If she stalls, back up a little and then continue again, during the same evening/time that you're together.

I see nothing wrong here. let her go at her own pace, before you know it she will screwing you from every position imaginable.
No, no, no. YOU SET THE PACE. If she lags, you adjust and then bring up the speed again. SHE'S NOT SUPPOSED TO SCREW YOU. IT'S THE OTHER WAY AROUND. YOU DO ALL THE LAYING.

As the guy, you're supposed to push her limits and boundaries. You lead and she follows, willingly because she knows her role in this interaction. "Explain" it to her by being the guy. That's it.

Just my 2 cents.

Cheers,
Mav
 
Last edited:
Top