Blatantly obvious:
1)if she starts to disrespect you
2)above is usually correlated with lower quality of your sex life
3)she starts to gaslight you
4)it's you that really try to fix things
but most obvious sign is :
5)Lying to yourself that you can put up with this ****
^ Couldnt have said it any better.
The longest I lied to myself was 6 painful months, ending a multi year relationship was hard but once you face the fact that you’re not happy at all and things won’t ever get any better no matter what you do - that’s when it’s time to bail.
People seem to think that mentally disordered women aren’t that common - but I’d disagree, they’re much more common than any of us think.
Not only that, but they’ve accepted the fact that they can’t stay in a relationship so they just date around - compiling more and more male victims of their very strange mental illnesses.
OP, it’s heartbreaking and tough to be alone, but it’s a sad necessity. The only way to completely heal is to eradicate the cancer from your life. Nothing says relief quite like finding the psychiatric report of an ex after being told she just had an anxiety issue for the duration of your relationship..