Master Don Juan
- May 31, 2020
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First off, it is very good to have the perspective of a bartender in this. Thank you for adding a take. What's the definition of "yours" that you are using? Are you suggesting that drinks are now to become like dinner? The Manosphere and pickup movement started advocating for no dinners in restaurants before sex at least a decade ago.I was, and sometimes still am, a bartender... Never buy a woman who’s not yours, a drink. Ever. Just don’t. Get her to buy u one. Or find a bozo who’s looking at her all googly eyed, point at him, and say “no, but I bet his dumb a55 would” and smirk. She’ll either laugh and stay put, Cuz U peaked her curiosity, or she’ll take u up on it, Go flirt a drink out of the bozo, and still find her way back to you. Win/win. If she does the second things, she’s low quality.
In the Millennial generation (early 1980s to mid 1990s births) in the United States, the most common way in which in men are buying women drinks is from swipe app arranged dates. Millennial men are not on the whole randomly buying women drinks in bars/nightclubs. Gen Z is likely to do the same. As I said earlier in the thread, I turned 21 in 2004, and the random buying of drinks for women who you just met (no tech assistance) was fading out even in the mid-2000s. This thread started in 2002.