Life isn't fair. The nice guys (i.e guys with no backbone or masculinity) get treated like ****, accept it. Especially by women since they are programmed to respect alphas first.They could at least be nicer to the guy who loses out. Right, so you aren't attracted to the 'lesser' guy? Fine. At least open your mind and take the initiative to SUGGEST the help for him. None of this getting with your girlfriends and just laying into him. That's what Rodger needed; a zero-BS 'advisor'.
As for getting free valid constructive advice from strangers without asking? Never happens. If you want that type of advice you either ask for it or seek it out from other sources, like dating coaches etc. You're expecting too much from strangers if you think otherwise.
Considering Eliot Rogers shallow preferences of only approaching the 10/10 hot girls, it's no wonder those girls treated him like ****. Girls like that are seldom nice to the weak beta male. They'd even be mean to the alphas if they really don't like the way they look etc.
The difference is that Eliot Roger was so weak he couldn't handle the rejection like other guys, and spiralled into a pit of darkness. Also, he was too damn stubborn to lower his ridiculously high standards.