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I went to a motel the other day, and there was a total babe behind the counter. Like a 9. She was about 25. I found out she was married to the probably 50 year old owner of the motel who used to be a boxer. Alpha male, but not attractive.
 

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I went to a motel the other day, and there was a total babe behind the counter. Like a 9. She was about 25. I found out she was married to the probably 50 year old owner of the motel who used to be a boxer. Alpha male, but not attractive.
The question is, when did they get together?
 

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When I was 28 I dated an 18 year old who turned 19 while we were dating, then when I was 29 I ended up dating another 19 year old. It's definitely possible, but you generally don't have much in common with women who are a decade behind you. Movies, music, and pop culture that isn't after 2000 they won't understand. You can make a great ass reference/joke that anyone our age would understand they'll just look fvcking clueless. They're also extremely immature and you often have to listen to them complain about dumb sh!t that you start to lose braincells. I'm not even joking, I felt like I had to dumb down my intelligence just to "vibe" with them. They're fun to fvck, but not to date. Once you do it a couple times, the novelty wears off. I would rather get with a chick closer to my age who has a little bit of experience. The whole fvcking 18-20 year olds in your 30s is more of an ego boost. I did it have my baby mama and I split, so I was in a weird time period of my life and I think it helped me cope and get over sh!t, but nowadays I'd rather fvck a chick who knows what she is doing.
 

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I agree @Bingo-Player . I remember myself at that age, and while I was pretty, sweet and sexy enough, I wouldn't go back there if you paid me, and I am being serious. I simply did not have the maturity or knowledge to bring much of anything of value to any relationship, even though I had been in two LTRs during those years.
It was a steep learning period for myself also one i'm not sure i would want to rush back to either but at the same time very important in my self development

In our late teens and early 20's we still have boundless hopes and dreams many of us haven't experienced enough of life trials and tribulations to understand that very little goes according to plan
 

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I agree @Bingo-Player . I remember myself at that age, and while I was pretty, sweet and sexy enough, I wouldn't go back there if you paid me, and I am being serious. I simply did not have the maturity or knowledge to bring much of anything of value to any relationship, even though I had been in two LTRs during those years.

I was overly sensitive and emotional and full of drama (jealousy, attention-seeking, lacked proper boundaries). Qualities most intelligent men abhor but my boyfriends remained with me (for years), so not sure what that says about them either. In retrospect, nothing good.

In any event OP, unless a man seeks a dingbat who isn’t capable of learning of damn thing from anything she has experienced in life, an intelligent, enlightened man who seeks a quality long term relationship with a quality woman will value a woman’s intelligence and wisdom in addition to her beauty, her sexuality, her sensuality, her femininity, the qualities that caused him to become sexually attracted to her.

That said, if a man's goal in life is to spin plates and/or pump and dump then I could understand him not valuing a woman's experience or the wisdom she gained from that experience.

I mean in his mind, who the fvck cares? A woman is valued for one thing, or rather two things, her youth and beauty, and if she's a virgin, her purity. Nothing else matters.

Water seeks its own level. I am learning that more and more every day.
Interesting to have a female on the forum, welcome lol. Thanks for sharing your perspective. I would kind of disagree on the last point though, about a woman being valued just for her beauty and being a virgin. Beauty yes, but honestly none of my friends give a crap at all if a girl is a virgin or not, and the men I know who do are usually pretty creepy and often very religious.
 

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but honestly none of my friends give a crap at all if a girl is a virgin or not, and the men I know who do are usually pretty creepy and often very religious.
Hey @Readytogetlaid appreciate the welcome, same to you. :)

Re quoted above, there have been a few threads discussing a woman's virginity and purity and how valued it is (at least by a certain subset of men), which is why I posted what I did.

One thread in particular entitled "the Virgin myth" in the Mature Man sub-forum might be of particular interest. There have been others as well.

It's good to see not all men think this way though, that you're an independent thinker who doesn't follow the herd.

I'm actually on my way out (I recently got married), but hope you enjoy your stay. I found my time here valuable and I learned a lot.

Ciao.
 
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I’m 29 and my ex was 21 and the maturity gap was awful. I couldn’t imagine some 40 year old plus guy trying to talk to a 18 year old.
 

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There is a clear generational divide, specially under 25. 25-27 is a sweet spot when you are 15-25 years older. You have to be patient with their type of bull**** and what they complain about, it literally melts your brain due to the immaturity and stupidity. But, and this is a big but, they almost always get you hard, regardless of your mood, etc.

The issue with women over 28, and particularly over 33, is that they bring little to the table that a 26 year old women already does. Women end their emotional and cognitive development about 26, after that, is is just the same, with basic tastes, boring hobbies, pilates, mimosas and the same makeup and netflix shows. As they grow, they do get some more experience, and their expectations grow and change as per their tastes, but the main problem is the boner test. How many hundreds of times you have seen or made a match with a woman over 30 and there is no push, no intent, no will to jerk off to her pictures. Some times, I just cannot even get erect after some minutes with them, while with women age 22 I get like a bull even if I am tired or it is a bad day.

One key item of the viagra industry, is that men over 50 not only have erectile dysfunction, but cannot get it up for women that old, in their 40s and 50s. Give a man 68 years old a woman age 23 and he will get a boner of solid bedrock, will likely *** in 40 seconds, ok, but he will get hard.
 
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