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Who me? I never claimed to practice Christianity anymore and I don't refer to myself as one. I was just raised as one. View attachment 4815
Yeah, I edited my post, as I saw it was confusing.

I was referring to females trying to settle down
 

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Yeah, I edited my post, as I saw it was confusing.

I was referring to females trying to settle down
Well that would be better than a single mother. But still, anytime a woman talks about being a Christian or "God fearing woman" or very family oriented, etc etc, on online dating, what they're trying to do is project what they're looking for. It's not that they are really any of those things themselves , but it is what they're looking for in a man to have a relationship with.
 

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Well that would be better than a single mother. But still, anytime a woman talks about being a Christian or "God fearing woman" or very family oriented, etc etc, on online dating, what they're trying to do is project what they're looking for. It's not that they are really any of those things themselves , but it is what they're looking for in a man to have a relationship with.
I think they're trying to project what they think a guy will like.

Deep down, they know that guys prefer modest women, so after they've done their slutting around, they become "conservative" and "Christian."

It's all a fvcking ruse to them.
 

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Women used to have to be respectable to find a mate. These days, they can fvck the football team first.

But they still know how a man's mind works. They still know what a man with a set of nuts will accept.

That's why they lie about their past. And I feel bad for any man that has been deceived in this regard. Poor sap!

The biggest hurdle in our age isn't finding a wife, it's avoiding the ones that will ruin your later years!
 

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Women used to have to be respectable to find a mate. These days, they can fvck the football team first.

But they still know how a man's mind works. They still know what a man with a set of nuts will accept.

That's why they lie about their past. And I feel bad for any man that has been deceived in this regard. Poor sap!

The biggest hurdle in our age isn't finding a wife, it's avoiding the ones that will ruin your later years!
Honestly it should be illegal for a woman to lie about her past to coerce a man to consent to marriage. Think about it, prostitutes consent to s3x with a man they don't desire, meaning consent has nothing to do with their desire at all, so basically rape is just shop lifting of the vagina. But it's totally socially acceptable for some degenerate whovre to scheme and scam some poor guy into a marriage by completely misrepresenting herself and this is insane. Im not sure the solution but perhaps we need some way to label women, like a little golden star or something so it's clearly labeled what they are and that way we know to use this one to pump and dump, and this one for a serious relationship. I don't really understand the reason why women can't live with the consequences of their actions, instead of being truthful and allowing men to make an informed decision.

And some people claim women are the oppressed ones. We truly live in a clown world. 1600081328387.png
 

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Keeping women in check is what the patriarchy was for.

But that ship has sailed, and it's never coming back.

Our future is the red-pilled one. And thank god we found it when we did.

We could be poor saps paying for a mortgage and his kids piano lessons, all while not living in the house or seeing said kids
 

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Women used to have to be respectable to find a mate. These days, they can fvck the football team first.
high school, college or the pros?
But they still know how a man's mind works. They still know what a man with a set of nuts will accept.

That's why they lie about their past. And I feel bad for any man that has been deceived in this regard. Poor sap!
Almost criminal.

The biggest hurdle in our age isn't finding a wife, it's avoiding the ones that will ruin your later years!
What percentage is that now adays?[/QUOTE]
 

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I agree. Truth is I never worry about "Red Flags", every woman has something about them that is potentially problematic. Worrying about this is a waste of time.... however, I'm not a relationship guy. If you are interested in a 'relationship' you do have to worry about serious problems because buying the woman, means you buy the entire package. But if you keep your mouth shut and listen to what she is saying, and keep dating someone for a period of time, maybe 3 months or longer, the so called "red flags" become obvious so you really don't have to look for them. Anyway, FWIW... these are the things that should be obvious if you ignore the feel good chemical nighmare going on inside you if you think you found the right one....

(1) Is she trying to manipulate you... she is trying to shape you into her life... a woman should be happy to exist you YOUR life, if she isn't... well it will not work long term. Because if you change for her, she will learn to resent you. This includes things like trying to separate you from your friends and family but generally trying to control your behavior. If all you ever do is sh1t with HER friends and family, you are headed for trouble.

(2) Is she a mess... I mean literally... is her car a mess... is her purse a mess... is her apartment a mess. This is an indication of a lack of discipline. No one can ever be truly happy if at some level they are undisciplined.

(3) Money problems.... not to mean she doesn't have money, but it is an indication a chick can not live within her means. I know chicks that do not make a lot of money, but they shop at thrift stores... she drives a used serviceable car... lives in an affordable apartment... They live within their means. I know women that make a good living well into 6 figures, who are in debt up to their @sses. It's a function of discipline.

(4) Health.... I know this sounds like you are buying a horse... but in a way you are.... looking at a woman as an investment. If she has chronic health issues, this is a problem. I know it's not fair to hold people accountable for things they can not control, but understand if you are in a LTR with a woman with health problems, including chronic mental health problems you are buying that too.

(5) Bad habits.... drugs.... drinking... not working out... eating habits... smoking (if you don't smoke) none of this gets better with time. You REALLY have to look at stuff like this with younger women in their 20s... When you are in your 20s, you can get away with a lot of bad habits and it will not effect you that much. Trust me, if she doesn't change these habits by the time she hits her mid-30s, she will be worn out and habits will be set, and little you can do about it.

(6) She doesn't have any really close female friends.... A woman, that does not have girl-friends is used to getting her social support from men... that never works out well.

Things many men think are red flags but really aren't:

(A) She has a bad relationship with her father. This really doesn't matter, I know plenty of chicks that did not have a father figure that are perfectly fine. It's certainly something the COULD be a problem, but these problems will manifest in 1-6 above.

(B) She's a single mom.... Really I do not know why people think this is a red flag. Clearly if you are not interested in being involved with a chick that has kids you should be concerned, but this isn't something you have to worry about discovering... it's pretty obvious... if you don't want this, then don't even start dating them.

(C) She is narcissistic... Again... any decent looking women is a narcissist... all women are fueled by attention. They are all like this, if you think this is a red flag... well, just go MGTOW... being gay isn't going to help you either, because gay men are the biggest narcissists in human kind. Just learn to live with it. Yeah, if she is like this other dudes will orbit around her... nothing you can do about that just the way things are.

(D) Number count .... Just own the fact that most women today have been with a lot of dudes... if you don't like this go MGTOW. This really isn't a problem in and of itself unless it bothers you... The problem isn't her, it's how you react to it. If this doesn't bother you, it will NOT be a problem

Anyway that's my take.
Haha, I think LA85 meant that the OP is a new account of a guy who was here before, his username was "Ranger". No problem of course.
 
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Haha, I think LA85 meant that the OP is a new account of a guy who was here before, his username was "Ranger". No problem of course.
I had my own thoughts about that. I knew he was somebody, just couldn't place who
 

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I think they're trying to project what they think a guy will like. Deep down, they know that guys prefer modest women, so after they've done their slutting around, they become "conservative" and "Christian." It's all a fvcking ruse to them.

Women used to have to be respectable to find a mate. These days, they can fvck the football team first. But they still know how a man's mind works. They still know what a man with a set of nuts will accept. That's why they lie about their past. And I feel bad for any man that has been deceived in this regard. Poor sap! The biggest hurdle in our age isn't finding a wife, it's avoiding the ones that will ruin your later years!
At the end of the day:

- No woman would recommend her daughter to work as a prostitute or porn actress, and be proud to present her as such to potential suitors.
- No woman would be proud of telling a suitor how last weekend, her daughter hooked up with 3 guys in the span of 24 hours.
- No woman would be proud of telling a suitor that her daughter hooks up with guys to medicate her selfesteem, or because she sees no significant connection between sex and intimacy.
- No woman would be proud of telling a suitor that her daughter is actually fvcking multiple guys while he is "suiting" her.
- No woman would be proud of telling a suitor that one of the reasons why her daughter is still single is because she feels no respect for, mistreats and rejects men who behave as she would publicly virtue signal that men "should" behave, but the guys she actually fvcks don't.

These are facts we can wish weren't true, but when faced with the above mantra we all feel spontaneously what the truth is. With our little human efforts we try to deal with it through denial, blame shifting, minimisation, escape, resignation. In the end the question is this... if they knew that all their future suitors could "see" their past when they look at them, and it was impossible to hide, would they still make the same choices?

... But although some negativity is unavoidable, we must not let it control us. We must feel acceptance, then perseverance.
 
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At the end of the day:

- No woman would recommend her daughter to work as a prostitute or porn actress, and be proud to present her as such to potential suitors.
- No woman would be proud of telling a suitor how last weekend, her daughter hooked up with 3 guys in the span of 24 hours.
- No woman would be proud of telling a suitor that her daughter hooks up with guys to medicate her selfesteem, or because she sees no significant connection between sex and intimacy.
- No woman would be proud of telling a suitor that her daughter is actually fvcking multiple guys while he is "suiting" her.
- No woman would be proud of telling a suitor that one of the reasons why her daughter is still single is because she feels no respect for, mistreats and rejects men who behave as she would publicly virtue signal that men "should" behave, but the guys she actually fvcks don't.

These are facts we can wish weren't true, but when faced with the above mantra we all feel spontaneously what the truth is. With our little human efforts we try to deal with it through denial, blame shifting, minimisation, escape, resignation. In the end the question is this... if they knew that all their future suitors could "see" their past when they look at them, and it was impossible to hide, would they still make the same choices?

But although some negativity is unavoidable, we must not let it control us. We must feel acceptance, then perseverance.
May it make you a better man. As men are the ones that change the world.

May it make you a better man, as men are the ones that can make a difference in other men's lives.

Only a man can accept reality, spit in its face, and proceed to make himself better because of it
 

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At the end of the day:

- No woman would recommend her daughter to work as a prostitute or porn actress, and be proud to present her as such to potential suitors.
- No woman would be proud of telling a suitor how last weekend, her daughter hooked up with 3 guys in the span of 24 hours.
- No woman would be proud of telling a suitor that her daughter hooks up with guys to medicate her selfesteem, or because she sees no significant connection between sex and intimacy.
- No woman would be proud of telling a suitor that her daughter is actually fvcking multiple guys while he is "suiting" her.
- No woman would be proud of telling a suitor that one of the reasons why her daughter is still single is because she feels no respect for, mistreats and rejects men who behave as she would publicly virtue signal that men "should" behave, but the guys she actually fvcks don't.

These are facts we can wish weren't true, but when faced with the above mantra we all feel spontaneously what the truth is. With our little human efforts we try to deal with it through denial, blame shifting, minimisation, escape, resignation. In the end the question is this... if they knew that all their future suitors could "see" their past when they look at them, and it was impossible to hide, would they still make the same choices?

... But although some negativity is unavoidable, we must not let it control us. We must feel acceptance, then perseverance.
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- No woman would recommend her daughter to work as a prostitute or porn actress, and be proud to present her as such to potential suitors.
- No woman would be proud of telling a suitor how last weekend, her daughter hooked up with 3 guys in the span of 24 hours.
- No woman would be proud of telling a suitor that her daughter hooks up with guys to medicate her selfesteem, or because she sees no significant connection between sex and intimacy.
- No woman would be proud of telling a suitor that her daughter is actually fvcking multiple guys while he is "suiting" her.
- No woman would be proud of telling a suitor that one of the reasons why her daughter is still single is because she feels no respect for, mistreats and rejects men who behave as she would publicly virtue signal that men "should" behave, but the guys she actually fvcks don't.
Replace 'woman' with 'man', 'her' with 'him', 'daughter' with 'son', 'guys' with 'gals', 'she' with 'he'.... and the statement above is still true.

However, the big difference between men and women is that typically a man can be alone, and live a life like this (assuming of course he avoids debilitating a STDs) and be perfectly fine. I know MANY men who are life long confirmed bachelors my age and they are completely happy. I know VERY few women who are alone in her 40s and 50s, that have never been married and have no children, that are pleased with their life decisions.

The truth is I can not imagine my life without my kids... but I am also equally sure that if they had never come along I would have been fine.... albeit with a lot more money. But really, it is true that money really doesn't buy happiness, it certainly helps, but no amount of money ever bought you more time.

The biggest problem we have with gender relations, is that by and large, men and women today have completely lost sight of exactly what makes each other happy. So we all behave in such a way as to make each other miserable.
 

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The biggest problem we have with gender relations, is that by and large, men and women today have completely lost sight of exactly what makes each other happy. So we all behave in such a way as to make each other miserable.
Indeed.
 

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In the "war" between genders, certain agendas have REMOVED intentionally any mechanisms in the relationship which may empower, help or make the other gender happy. Those mechanisms have been replaced with mechanisms for control and reducing someone.
 

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In the "war" between genders, certain agendas have REMOVED intentionally any mechanisms in the relationship which may empower, help or make the other gender happy. Those mechanisms have been replaced with mechanisms for control and reducing someone.
And it’s done on purpose. Make no mistake about it. But I’m preaching to the choir with you goodstuff.
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Replace 'woman' with 'man', 'her' with 'him', 'daughter' with 'son', 'guys' with 'gals', 'she' with 'he'.... and the statement above is still true.
But the difference is that men are turned off by that behavior, while women would not be turned off by most of those points.
 
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