You guys ignoring red flags are not screening the people in your lives to well.
Man or woman
I don’t mind disagreement. It’s just prudent to be sure what you are disagreeing with. The concept is still escaping.
I can get the best out of a man as his leader in a few days. Get him enthusiastic and producing because he wants to. He starts dreaming again. Working towards something. Work for the sake of work doesn’t pan out. What do I care about his “red flags”. Not showing up to work or being late or screwing off? 1-2-gone. It’s nothing personal.
Can a man get a woman’s best out of her? Damn right he can. All her red flags belong to the life outside of me. They aren’t even red flags.
It’s not about her problems. Those belong to her and they stay off my lines.
This isn't rocket science. I can’t even remember the last woman who actually treated me poorly. The last one who tried was my ex-wife. Go ask her what happened.
Concentrating on those flags will net a man nothing. He will still fall short. Very short. He will be looking for something that doesn’t exist. Not anywhere.
Handling a woman is done on a gradient. Learn to handle oneself then try to handle others.
A woman’s best can be well below your standard or way above when she snaps to. When she realizes that she really can control her emotions she feels more powerful and then will sadly realize you ain’t it because you’re still looking for flags. Lol. Some men absolutely deserve to be left and my bed is open for her to express it. I wouldn’t even care if it’s your wife.
I don’t give a shyt about LTRs. I’m not that type of guy. Just committing to a woman reshapes the dynamic.