I was involved with a co-worker last year (same organization, but not same location--so we don't see each other alot at all).
The whole thing lasted 6 weeks and I feel I was used as a rebound. The whole thing kind of just fizzled out and she kind of went ghost on me without explanation. Needless to say, I would of liked to have gotten to known her better and I never got closure. Due to the fact that we are co-workers technically I didn't ask for an explanation from her; I just let it go. However, it still bothers me until this day. She even has a new b/f who I am a much better catch than (IMHO). LOL
I decided to unfriend her on facebook and Linkedin a couple of weeks ago, but then deactivated both accounts to sort of save face. I realized, getting rid of linkedin was a mistake so I set up a new account. I started reconnecting with people and I sent her an invitation. She blocked me from linkedin, since now I cannot even see her profile.
Part of me wants to reach out to her, not to be angry with her just tell her how I feel (that I felt used), but I don't want things to be like this and maybe we can be on good terms since she is cool and a colleague.
I don't know, do I reach out or just let it go? This is something I should of done 10 months ago.
The whole thing lasted 6 weeks and I feel I was used as a rebound. The whole thing kind of just fizzled out and she kind of went ghost on me without explanation. Needless to say, I would of liked to have gotten to known her better and I never got closure. Due to the fact that we are co-workers technically I didn't ask for an explanation from her; I just let it go. However, it still bothers me until this day. She even has a new b/f who I am a much better catch than (IMHO). LOL
I decided to unfriend her on facebook and Linkedin a couple of weeks ago, but then deactivated both accounts to sort of save face. I realized, getting rid of linkedin was a mistake so I set up a new account. I started reconnecting with people and I sent her an invitation. She blocked me from linkedin, since now I cannot even see her profile.
Part of me wants to reach out to her, not to be angry with her just tell her how I feel (that I felt used), but I don't want things to be like this and maybe we can be on good terms since she is cool and a colleague.
I don't know, do I reach out or just let it go? This is something I should of done 10 months ago.