- Jun 23, 2014
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This is what I have been saying and what my analysis, experiences, etc. have drawn out as a conclusion. But in general, the vast majority of guys (old and young) will disagree with me even when they are dealing with the various issues I've pinpointed.seasonedplayer said:You are right. Chicks these days add zero value and getting worse by the day. My mum and her generation constantly ask why I am not married and I tell them women today are not like her generation or her parents generation. Quite frankly, women already started to deteriorate in my parents generation. They have this dillusional idea of endless vacations, endless new home appliances and a man that comes home from work at 5:30 nice and relaxed to care for the kids.
There is no upside to marriage, most guys don't even get sex. The only upside is if you really want kids
I think to a lot of these guys, they aren't even using logic and ration, they are literally just going on an emotional, religious, societal or social based construct that outside of it's emotional standing....really has no meaning.
You know how FDR says, "There's nothing to fear, but fear itself?" I believe he meant that fear in and of itself, is just an emotion, and often times people create THEIR ENTIRE LIVES based on an emotion. The issue with an emotion, is that it's not tied to anything of substance, and can change in 3 seconds.
When I say the market is horrible, I'm not saying that you can't get laid. I'm not saying you can't go on dates. I'm not saying you can't be some pseudo player and beat your chest about how many plates you are spinning.
I'm talking about the fact that for a TRADITIONAL man, looking for a family structure, to marry a chick and build a legacy (family tree) to pass down wealth.....that shyt is just NOT out here today. There's no chick that's on that shyt. Chicks want to get married because it's the "IN" thing to do, everybody else is doing it and she doesn't want to be left out. Just like having a kid, everybody else has one, so she wants one, like the damn kid is one of those Tickle Me Elmo dolls that was HOT over 10 years ago during Christmas Time.
For me to deliberately enter into this abnormal and backwards structure, thinking I'm about to be fulfilled in ANY WAY, or there's going to be a positive boost to my life in ANY WAY, is just me being delusional. It's all a LOSS.
The question is, is the LOSS worth it? Could I turn the LOSS into some sort of investment into the future? And the answer is......I don't think so. And it's pissing me off. Because all I can do is work on MYSELF, I can't do shyt to change the LOW QUALITY of these fvcking chicks out here. The chicks are the ones that have to come to be with a quality standing and they AREN'T doing it.