I definitely don't get an effeminate, vapid or bytchy vibe from you man; like how you selfdescribed in some of these old posts.I'm the same way lol. I glossed over it. But I wrestled with the idea, then went ahead with it. The reason was I didn't want the relationship to end, I felt like it was going great. The marriage thing was just paperwork, at the time. But I bit off more than I could chew. Anyway, I wanted to be single again rather than cheat, or worse, turn into a miserable bytch and give her an excuse to cheat.
More of a thoughtful and wise vibe. You stayed masculine.
I still couldn't find the post where you went to city hall. Fasting has betrayed me since I experimented with wheated foods in my open window. I just ate (no wheat though)and am thinking clearer and still couldn't find the 'I married her' post #