Girls are wimps. As soon as they feel threatened or pressured in any way, they back off. It doesn't really matter how much she is head over heels for you, if you pressure her, she'll back off. Relationships are to have fun and meet new people. If you pressure a chick to fast to soon, its over.
This "pressure" i'm talking about isn't about sex or making out or anything like that. It is expecting to much from her. Trust me it is hella easy to accidently pressure a girl, then she drops you like a heavy rock and you are stuck wondering what the hell happened.
Do your best not to expect to much from her and try not to pressure her or make her feel awkward. It's all about having fun. I learned this the hard way, so hopefully some people out there won't have to learn the way i did.
When a girls breaks up with you, a good "why did she do that" question you could ask yourself is "Did i make her feel awkward?", or "Did i push it to far to fast?"
yep. this is why it's best to approach girls with a "positive and relaxed" attitude, and why confident men are the most attractive. Confident people TAKE responsibility rather than shedding rsponsibility unto others. They take the pressure and they dont dish it out.
I hooked up with a girl in school on monday, everything was great till friday, when I took her to the toilet and made out. I wanted to go further, kept pulling down her pants, she didn't want to. 30 min later I get the "Let's just be friends" line.
Oh well, you live and you learn.
Maybe taking her to the toilet to make out had something to do with it.
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lol fvcking in school washrooms. It does happen.. but yeah only with those really dumb slvts you know who they are. Try it on a random chick and yeah she'll take it as an insult.
and lol yeah, just back off for a bit when that happens.
Girls are wimps. As soon as they feel threatened or pressured in any way, they back off. It doesn't really matter how much she is head over heels for you, if you pressure her, she'll back off. Relationships are to have fun and meet new people. If you pressure a chick to fast to soon, its over.
This "pressure" i'm talking about isn't about sex or making out or anything like that. It is expecting to much from her. Trust me it is hella easy to accidently pressure a girl, then she drops you like a heavy rock and you are stuck wondering what the hell happened.
Do your best not to expect to much from her and try not to pressure her or make her feel awkward. It's all about having fun. I learned this the hard way, so hopefully some people out there won't have to learn the way i did.
When a girls breaks up with you, a good "why did she do that" question you could ask yourself is "Did i make her feel awkward?", or "Did i push it to far to fast?"
The problem is with creating pressure before interest. The degree of interest dictates the level of pressure.
We only feel pressure when we sense something is not right. The person wants us to hurry up and go for it before we figure out what it is. They are trying to hurry it along. If your boss pressures you to close up the store early so you can have a beach day, that's not pressure.
All you need to do is try to rush her a little faster than she wants to go, and she will feel pressure. This is negative. However, you need to push a little too far to see how far you can go.
Yep, I'd have agree that the pressure can't come before interest is high....even then I don't think it's such a great idea. What I think is better would be to let her put the pressure on herself to keep you, since you could leave her at any time.
yep. this is why it's best to approach girls with a "positive and relaxed" attitude, and why confident men are the most attractive. Confident people TAKE responsibility rather than shedding rsponsibility unto others. They take the pressure and they dont dish it out.
you know this point explains so many other issues that guys wonder about like oh why do girls like me when im in a relationship or oh girls always dig guys who are players....... no pressure , when u dont care they start wanting u to care....
lol fvcking in school washrooms. It does happen.. but yeah only with those really dumb slvts you know who they are. Try it on a random chick and yeah she'll take it as an insult.
and lol yeah, just back off for a bit when that happens.
Excellent post, explains why I screwed up twice even once I naturally stopping being an AFC. Couldn't understand why, just blamed the fact the chicks were shy (they are, so it was -easy- to pressure them)
F u < k that, keep the pressure on. Otherwise you are just another one of her "girlfriends."
I could only do this with "mousy" shy girls.
The last girl that left me was because of the pressure, but you would not believe the things I had her doing. I don't regret it. I pushed her to the limit.l
Once you give in they are in control. If you want to "have fun, meet people and have relationships" and put up with her s1hit thats fine, but thats puss talk in my eyes.
