phoenix-eye
Don Juan
I spent the last hour or so going through the posts and searched by topic to see if what I'm about to say has been touched on. If I missed it somewhere--sorry!
First, a little background: I'm 34yrs old and have been a bartender for over ten years.
I have worked clubs, s**t-hole bars, 5 star hotels, airports, you name it.
And a few things I continue to see--no matter the establishment--still baffle me.
One: A guy starts a conversation with a woman at the bar, but she's not interested. She's looking at her drink, playing with the straws, even turning her back on the guy,and/or talking to someone else. Take the hint: She's a b***h! Move on!
Two: Buying women drinks as an intro. Don't do it. See if you can sit with her and talk a while, then--and only then--should you buy her a drink. And if she insists you buy her one before you've had a chances to judge if this is a deserving lady, walk away without saying a word.
Three: Guy's that walk into a bar/club all hunched over, and with a look on their faces like someone just shot their dog. Smile! Listen to some comedy on your way to the club if you have to, but by all means don't looked all pissed off like someone crapped on your catus.
This is basic stuff for sure, yes!
There's more, but right now this is where I'll leave off. If you're not the type of guy with these problems, then you're okay and none of this is for you. Forgive me if I've come-off like a complete d***. I see so many guys get taken advantage of, or shot down, and it doesn't have to be that way if you know how to take care of yourself. I hope I helped someone.
First, a little background: I'm 34yrs old and have been a bartender for over ten years.
I have worked clubs, s**t-hole bars, 5 star hotels, airports, you name it.
And a few things I continue to see--no matter the establishment--still baffle me.
One: A guy starts a conversation with a woman at the bar, but she's not interested. She's looking at her drink, playing with the straws, even turning her back on the guy,and/or talking to someone else. Take the hint: She's a b***h! Move on!
Two: Buying women drinks as an intro. Don't do it. See if you can sit with her and talk a while, then--and only then--should you buy her a drink. And if she insists you buy her one before you've had a chances to judge if this is a deserving lady, walk away without saying a word.
Three: Guy's that walk into a bar/club all hunched over, and with a look on their faces like someone just shot their dog. Smile! Listen to some comedy on your way to the club if you have to, but by all means don't looked all pissed off like someone crapped on your catus.
This is basic stuff for sure, yes!
There's more, but right now this is where I'll leave off. If you're not the type of guy with these problems, then you're okay and none of this is for you. Forgive me if I've come-off like a complete d***. I see so many guys get taken advantage of, or shot down, and it doesn't have to be that way if you know how to take care of yourself. I hope I helped someone.