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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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Sir, you were the emotional tampon for her to dump on, her boyfriend got access to her body and sex
You filled the emotional need and validation by giving her free attention
You were not the alpha sir, you were the beta sucka giving her free attention and validation
Even if you did sext and get nude pictures which doesn't take much effort at all if we are talking about communication via phone devices
You did not get sex from her which an Alpha could have gotten with ease
instead, you got blue balls and now making this thread trying to cope and make it seem like you a stud when you're not
 

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Women may not know what they want, per se, but they absolutely know what they DON'T want.

Confusing these two things is what leads a lot of guys to mistakenly think a woman is "wrong" for not giving you a chance.

She doesn't want what you have to offer. It's simple. She may not know what she is looking for, but she knows what you are offering ain't it.
 

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You know what this is? It's verbal porn.
It's basically the female version of real porn.
It belongs in the same category as Reasons Why Women Love Reading Fifty Shades of Grey
They get off on the fantasy.

I bet this chick could go months of dirty texting with you back n forth and never letting you have sex with her.
 

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You know what this is? It's verbal porn.
It's basically the female version of real porn.
It belongs in the same category as Reasons Why Women Love Reading Fifty Shades of Grey
They get off on the fantasy.

I bet this chick could go months of dirty texting with you back n forth and never letting you have sex with her.
OP thinks getting a text from a woman wanting to suck his phallus is a flex or getting a picture of her boobs that she probably took 5 years ago saved under her secret folder that she has sent to 100s of guys(all she has to do is click Forward too OP or another guy!)

Meanwhile, as OP is making her hot and bothered the boyfriend is reaping the rewards for all of OP's effort

bwahahhahahaha
 

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you were the emotional tampon for her to dump on, her boyfriend got access to her body and sex
You filled the emotional need and validation by giving her free attention
You were not the alpha sir, you were the beta sucka giving her free attention and validation

You did not get sex from her which an Alpha could have gotten with ease
instead, you got blue balls and now making this thread trying to cope and make it seem like you a stud when you're not
This is perfect analysis of @user252009 and his situation.

Women may not know what they want, per se, but they absolutely know what they DON'T want.

She doesn't want what you have to offer. It's simple. She may not know what she is looking for, but she knows what you are offering ain't it.
Women know when they are disinterested.

Women's "ick" list is getting longer and they are getting disinterested in a larger percentage of men due to their increasing abundance.
 

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Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but you're not alpha, and will never be with that mentality, you're just another beta bob orbiter who was entertaining her like all others she was texting with.
 
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