Master Don Juan
- Apr 25, 2016
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Do you honestly think that she doesnt know her actions are out of line? Of course she does. She only does it because she doesnt care to lose you because she already has someone else. She can replace you in a matter of no time flat and still be in a relationship with a new side piece.Guys I’m thinking about taking initiative and telling her that grilling me about what I was up to and getting upset was out of line and trying to take back some respect - regardless of her attitude or whether or not she brings it up again. I think I need to man up and not be afraid of losing her.
Is this too emotional if I bring it up again if she doesn’t? Or should I just chill and see where the chips fall and know what to do next time she brings drama?
Indifference is the key and that does not involve getting upset and telling her off. Just use Silence and Distance. You win every time.
When you feel as though you need to tell a woman that she has been disrespectful, you are already at a point where its probably over. You can use S&D and she can change her ways and reach back out. At that point you can make it clear that if she ever acts like that again, you will ghost her and be totally ok with it. And she will know youre not bluffing because you just disappeared already while using S&D.
We are not parents to these chicks and they are not kids (even though they often act like it). You cannot scold them for what they did because you are allowing them to act this way. All you can do is go silent, pull back and if she reaches back out, you tell her that her actions do not line up with what youre looking for and the next time.......well there wont be a next time.
That is when S&D works. And if she says "fvck you" and you never hear from her again, it still works. You win.