Master Don Juan
- Mar 23, 2018
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Typical self-victimizing. Classic narcissist behavior. She is painting herself as the victim in that situation so she doesn't have to take any responsibility for it. This is a major red flag that tells you she is always going to be manipulative. Girls don't stay with guys because they are worried of what they will do (the exception being serious physical abuse and she is in fear of her life which I'm guessing isn't the case here). And keep in mind she was already rid of him yet chose to go BACK to him which even further invalidates that argument. Not to mention the whole argument is just laughable because she could be saying, "I met these 15 guys at a support group for depression and I'm perfectly in my right to keep letting them gang-bang me every Wednesday night because it's to help them feel good about themselves. But just know that I don't like it, and I'm trying to get out of it.... I just haven't figured out HOW yet. Meanwhile, you should be exclusive with me and not touch another woman." She doesn't have to TRY to get out of her relationship. There's literally nothing stopping her. She simply doesn't want to because she likes him and doesn't want to say that to you.I already know what the “but it’s a totally different situation” response would be from her: how she’s not happy in her situation and trying to get out of her relationship (she’s scared of what he’ll do) as opposed to me seeking out someone.
But having said all that, cheers to you for admitting where you went wrong and taking ownership of it.