Aiken_Drum
Master Don Juan
First, compliments are NOT AFC. Giving a sincere compliment, I.E., saying good things you notice about girls is a good way to create rapport. Be sure you don't comment on sex-related physical features if you just met them, saying "Nice brests" will catalog you as another AFC loser.
Best things to compliment on are personality, such as saying "You are warn/sweet/uplifting/whatever". Also, don't overdo it, just say a couple of nice things after chatting her up for a while or you'll be seen as, again, an AFC wanting to buy her attention with compliments. You need to be sincere about it or she'll sense that you are saying it for the results. Pick something you SINCERELY like about her.
Anyway, back to the main topic.
I've read this on "How to make friends and influence people".
When you give a compliment to a person, they try to live up to that reputation. For example, if you say to a girl "I see you are a very open and kind person" they will be more open and kinder towards you because they want to show you that this good thing you said about them is true.
You can pick what attitude you want her to have towards you, like "being confortable with your sexuality" (be careful with this one, you need to have a certain connection with her), being kind, etc and she'll be more of that after you say it.
This tip can be adapted to any kind of relationship.
Try it.
Good luck.
P.S.: read the book, it's a perfect guide for interpersonal relationships, HIGHLY recommended.
Best things to compliment on are personality, such as saying "You are warn/sweet/uplifting/whatever". Also, don't overdo it, just say a couple of nice things after chatting her up for a while or you'll be seen as, again, an AFC wanting to buy her attention with compliments. You need to be sincere about it or she'll sense that you are saying it for the results. Pick something you SINCERELY like about her.
Anyway, back to the main topic.
I've read this on "How to make friends and influence people".
When you give a compliment to a person, they try to live up to that reputation. For example, if you say to a girl "I see you are a very open and kind person" they will be more open and kinder towards you because they want to show you that this good thing you said about them is true.
You can pick what attitude you want her to have towards you, like "being confortable with your sexuality" (be careful with this one, you need to have a certain connection with her), being kind, etc and she'll be more of that after you say it.
This tip can be adapted to any kind of relationship.
Try it.
Good luck.
P.S.: read the book, it's a perfect guide for interpersonal relationships, HIGHLY recommended.
