Honestly this is really easy. Her IL is mediocre at best, so she keeps telling you she would like to hang out, and on the rare occasion when it comes time to hang out and she feels like it, she will. But she isn't BURNING with desire to date you and to get to know you better, hence her constant dragging of her feet.JLW said:The crying like a ***** comments are really unnecessary. I was just asking for advice, dude. I got it from a bunch of people, and it helped me figure out what needed to be done. So why the hostility?
IMO you should just move on, quit contacting her, and let her get try to make plans with you. I doubt that she will, and long term this entire thing is pointless, but you may be able to get another lay or two out of it.