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You wouldn't try for girls in their 30s?
There have been a few, but the majority tend to be 40 and up, which is why I used the word 'mostly'
Since getting divorced at around 50, the youngest has been an ONS with a 29yo, and a few short term things with women of 33, 36 and 38 - but early to mid 40s tend to be the age group I do best with. (Been told I look mid-40s myself)
 

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There have been a few, but the majority tend to be 40 and up, which is why I used the word 'mostly'
Since getting divorced at around 50, the youngest has been an ONS with a 29yo, and a few short term things with women of 33, 36 and 38 - but early to mid 40s tend to be the age group I do best with. (Been told I look mid-40s myself)
Nice, do you enjoy being divorced and playing the field? Any kids?
 

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Nice, do you enjoy being divorced and playing the field? Any kids?
I'm loving being divorced - and have more than doubled my 'body-count' since splitting from the ex-wife.
Only the one kid, a daughter who is now in her 30s, and has her own family thing going on.

Actually, a few of the younger women I've been with these last few years, have been from my daughter's extended circle of friends and workmates.
Daughter knows, and is fine with it.
Her relationship with her mother isn't the best, and when we split she asked me how I'd put up with her for so long. The first friend of hers that I slept with... we met at a barbecue get-together for my daughter's birthday, and my daughter gave me the thumbs-up and a wink as we left when I drove the friend home afterwards - LOL
 
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I’m nearly 40.

my oldest was 42 I think, when I was about 23.

Now, Im married so out of the game. It would have to be someone smoking to get me to consider that. Obviously consciously I don’t want to be unfaithful, but if a smoking hot 23 year old came along….I guess I’m saying for me, I have what I want. My wife is 11 years younger, it would have to be sub 30 and smoking.

if I was single: younger than me by at least 2 years for relationship. Up to say 45 for fun.

I had some very happy times with women older than me in my early 20s
 

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For me it was a 36 year old when I was about 24. It was less of a thrill than I imagined it would be. Back then I thought of women in their 40s as repulsive old hags. Even when I reached my 40s and 50s I only dated women in their 30s. I thought of 40s as old and worn out. But then I’ve always been exceptionally young for my age, so I probably literally thought of myself as being in my 30s when I was in fact in my 40s
 

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She was 53. I was 24. She was some chief petty officer's mother. F them slackdick CPO's
 

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Out of interest do post menopausal women still get 'wet' or similar to men bot getting as 'hard' when older, do they dry up more lol.
 

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Out of interest do post menopausal women still get 'wet' or similar to men bot getting as 'hard' when older, do they dry up more lol.
I've heard of it happening, but not experienced it myself.... yet! - All post-menopausal women I've been with have had no problem as far as that's concerned.

I think it can happen due to hormonal changes - and so many these days get hormone replacement therapy if they have that problem and want to remain 'active'.
I suppose it's a similar principle to guys getting 'V' pills.

And the 'not as hard' thing in older men:
I found that fitness played a big part for me.
I did let myself get badly out of shape when I was married, I piled on a LOT of weight and began to suffer the dreaded 'not as hard with age' - then after the breakup I went full, 'No refined sugars', ate properly, started cycling for fitness again >>> Lost the excess weight >>> Got fit again...
Amazing the difference it made... It was like I was regenerating - I now look 10-12 yrs younger than I am, and physically I feel like I did in my 30s - including the contents of my pants.
I'm an even better prospect to a woman than I was in my 30s, because the guy down below reacts the same as it did at 30, but I'm now far more experienced, and have better self-control.
 

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I'd take a HARD pass on all three of those and I'm 48. Ye gods, they are as rough as a badgers arse.
You'll "let" them give you some head if you were in a long drought, and after doing so you might "consider" letting them give you some pvssy.
 

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I'd take a HARD pass on all three of those and I'm 48. Ye gods, they are as rough as a badgers arse.
I could never do any of those either. They all look like they should either be a 3rd grade teacher or in prison.
 

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I'm loving being divorced - and have more than doubled my 'body-count' since splitting from the ex-wife.
Only the one kid, a daughter who is now in her 30s, and has her own family thing going on.

Actually, a few of the younger women I've been with these last few years, have been from my daughter's extended circle of friends and workmates.
Daughter knows, and is fine with it.
Her relationship with her mother isn't the best, and when we split she asked me how I'd put up with her for so long. The first friend of hers that I slept with... we met at a barbecue get-together for my daughter's birthday, and my daughter gave me the thumbs-up and a wink as we left when I drove the friend home afterwards - LOL
So wait if I read that right, you hooked up with one of your daughter's friends?
 

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So wait if I read that right, you hooked up with one of your daughter's friends?
Well, Step-daughter's friend, but yep! More than one (all on separate occasions).
On that occasion it was more of a friend-of-a-friend..
I realise the term 'daughter's friend' doesn't sound good - but we're talking about women in their 30s and 40s here (Stepdaughter is 38)
All single free-agents at the time, and certainly NOT any of the ones that I've known since they were kids.
I'm not completely without scruples - LOL
 
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