There are many Ms. Rights
One good line on this board says there's one place where the woman of your dreams is: Inside your head.
While that is true, another truism is that you can literally fall in love with millions of different women. I wouldn't suggest this at the same time. But you could literally fall in love with millions of different women in this world. We have the myth of the soul mate and "the only one for me."
Well, if that's true, if one guy picked the wrong one, he screwed it up for everyone!
I'm not sure who your ex is or what fb is (fat butt? football?) ... I'm a little tired of the abbreviations and your message was tough to read. Could you decipher your problem please?
If you're actively looking for happily ever after, you won't find it. If you work on your inner qualities, don't worry about whom or whom you're not dating, you'll find a lot of quality women. Happily ever after is something conjured up in our fairy tale society. I don't know a lot of happily ever afters. I know some good, solid marriages; and I know many more poor marriages.
Read the DJ Bible or any of the key articles on the DJ site. You'll learn that your have one-itis ... if she's your EX, keep her your ex. Who cares what she's become, most of the time that's a big smokescreen anyway.
Work on YOURSELF and do not obsess about women. Contrary to popular belief here when I got shouted down, you have to date up a storm to find what you want. All the AFCs jumped my sh-t because they think you should find one and obsess.
Wrong-O! To find a the best apple you unfortunately have to go through a lot of bad fruit!
The only reason you think your ex is great is because you had something with her once. Time to get over her and work on YOU.
