indiorunner
Don Juan
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Well, I've been to my share of clubs...and maybe 2 bars(it pays to have friends who know the bouncers since i am only 20)
I think a recurring question here is how to approach a girl in crowded/group situation?
here is my suggestion...
*go after the "ugly" one in the group. Don't hit on her, just be nice to her..a nice new friend I guess you could say. They always seem approachable to me. When you've chatted with her for a while...if she likes you she will intro you to her friends and you will get a good first impression with them. That's when you'd have to start talking to the one you think you want(assuming she's not taken), but still continue talking to the "ugly" girl. You can never just leave her out of the convo. when you're at the club/bar. Before you leave ..tell them you had a nice time and ask them if they'd like to hangout again sometime. Exchange your numbers. Then when you guys meet again..say a week later in a cafe or wherever..you have to call the ugly one up beforehand and have to make sure it stays in a friendship level and tell her how much this new friendship means to you... Then just become good friends with her and her friends... AND THEN you ask your beautiful goddess out...(with moderation, can't rush anything).
Something similar happened to me and everything was going fine up until when we all hung out the third time...I got a lil' drunk and I became a complete *ss and needless to say, I haven't heard from her since.
Hope I've helped ...
I think a recurring question here is how to approach a girl in crowded/group situation?
here is my suggestion...
*go after the "ugly" one in the group. Don't hit on her, just be nice to her..a nice new friend I guess you could say. They always seem approachable to me. When you've chatted with her for a while...if she likes you she will intro you to her friends and you will get a good first impression with them. That's when you'd have to start talking to the one you think you want(assuming she's not taken), but still continue talking to the "ugly" girl. You can never just leave her out of the convo. when you're at the club/bar. Before you leave ..tell them you had a nice time and ask them if they'd like to hangout again sometime. Exchange your numbers. Then when you guys meet again..say a week later in a cafe or wherever..you have to call the ugly one up beforehand and have to make sure it stays in a friendship level and tell her how much this new friendship means to you... Then just become good friends with her and her friends... AND THEN you ask your beautiful goddess out...(with moderation, can't rush anything).
Something similar happened to me and everything was going fine up until when we all hung out the third time...I got a lil' drunk and I became a complete *ss and needless to say, I haven't heard from her since.
Hope I've helped ...